Right I have a problem with some friends, I was trying to stay out of it but I am getting annoyed with it all.
I have 2 friends, one is gay and the other is 'bi' (which means if he is drunk and horny he'd settle for a guy). Anyway, the bi guy has been in a relationship for years (with a girl) who he has just broken up with, and all this time my gay mate has been fancying him.
Now since the bi guy has broken up with his girlfriend my gay friend has become completely mental over him. He thinks he now has a chance to 'get in there' and win the other guy over. Anyway about a month ago, literally a week after the bi guy split up with his girlfriend he got so hammered he got a bit busy with the gay guy (which the gay guy had intended and had been getting him drunk for this purpose). A few days later and the gay guy was treating him like his boyfriend, so the bi guy sat him down and told him that he didn't fancy him, it was only because he was feeling really low and drunk that anything happened and he wanted to be his friend and nothing else.
You'd think that would be the end of it, but no. Since that time the gay guy has been taking the bi guy out and trying to depress him by talking about his ex girlfriend, and then getting him hammered to try and instigate some kind of sexual encounter. As far as I am aware nothing else has happened and the bi guy has tried to tell him that nothing else will happen. So 2 weeks ago we were out and the gay guy was trying it on again, and being as they are both my friends and he was making it really awkward for everyone I tried to talk to the gay guy about it. His response was that he didn't care and he'd keep getting the bi guy drunk until he gave in.
Now since then I haven't seen either of them because the gay guy just wants to spend time alone with the bi guy, and so tells the bi guy I'm busy all the time or I'm at university when I am not. Obviously I'm slightly hacked off because these 2 guys are 2 of my closest friends and now I don't seem to be able to go out with them.
How can I sort this out, the gay guy will not listen to either me or the guy he likes, and its really putting a strain on everyones friendships.
I have 2 friends, one is gay and the other is 'bi' (which means if he is drunk and horny he'd settle for a guy). Anyway, the bi guy has been in a relationship for years (with a girl) who he has just broken up with, and all this time my gay mate has been fancying him.
Now since the bi guy has broken up with his girlfriend my gay friend has become completely mental over him. He thinks he now has a chance to 'get in there' and win the other guy over. Anyway about a month ago, literally a week after the bi guy split up with his girlfriend he got so hammered he got a bit busy with the gay guy (which the gay guy had intended and had been getting him drunk for this purpose). A few days later and the gay guy was treating him like his boyfriend, so the bi guy sat him down and told him that he didn't fancy him, it was only because he was feeling really low and drunk that anything happened and he wanted to be his friend and nothing else.
You'd think that would be the end of it, but no. Since that time the gay guy has been taking the bi guy out and trying to depress him by talking about his ex girlfriend, and then getting him hammered to try and instigate some kind of sexual encounter. As far as I am aware nothing else has happened and the bi guy has tried to tell him that nothing else will happen. So 2 weeks ago we were out and the gay guy was trying it on again, and being as they are both my friends and he was making it really awkward for everyone I tried to talk to the gay guy about it. His response was that he didn't care and he'd keep getting the bi guy drunk until he gave in.
Now since then I haven't seen either of them because the gay guy just wants to spend time alone with the bi guy, and so tells the bi guy I'm busy all the time or I'm at university when I am not. Obviously I'm slightly hacked off because these 2 guys are 2 of my closest friends and now I don't seem to be able to go out with them.
How can I sort this out, the gay guy will not listen to either me or the guy he likes, and its really putting a strain on everyones friendships.
Or would that not help 
