Relationship rubbish

rossyl said:
Cheers guys for the response.

For the record i told her we were on a two week break she said ok, and asked how i came to the decision. I said i was unhappy and it was either end it right now or give it two weeks.

I know i'll be living in hope for 2weeks. But i will be playing the jealousy game, which is dangerous and i won't lay it on too thick.

The two weeks will also give me time to decide if i actually want to be with this girl, and will give me time and an opportunity to meet other girls.

Whatever happens at the end of two weeks it'll either be on or off, and that's it.

In the meantime she'll only hear how much fun i'm having.
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Don't go overboard on the telling her what you have been up to - chances are it could backfire quite spectacularly. Women can always get more men.

Play it cool, let her know that you are not sitting next to the phone all night, but that you are out here and there. Keep it subtle and not "Way aye man, went banging burds all weekend, ya know, went through 10 slappers in one night".

Be friendly and polite but indifferent when it comes to the relationship.
 
kinda crap advice above tbh. Dont go and try and pull aload of slappers etc, dont change your routine, it shouldnt be like a competition, just be you, and be patient, id even give her a text/call to see how she is and what she is up to? Maybes slip a joke in, just be layed back and get on with your life as you usually do. Changing your routine and hitting the clubs on the pull cos you'v got 2 weeks of 'freedom'(its not really freedom cos its got consequences) isnt really the best idea, yea you are not together, but you want to be.. so dont ruin it for yourself. If shes a decent bird and feels how you want her to feel for you she wont go out every night on the pull etc either.
 
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