relationship troubles

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:36

Well i think she's finally given up on me, after recent events at work.

Are relationships that are hard work worth it? if your happy most of the time, even if there are issues?

Any ideas on how to get over losing somone? Never really been in this situation before

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:42

Yep, its a work one.

Its just very difficult, because i said something to someone about her its been twisted around, now she doesnt trust me.

Shes just text me now saying, its over and don't contact me. Just dont know if i can fix it.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:44

Well im gonna try and see her in an hour or so when she gets back, then I'll know for sure.

Just she's so different to anyone ive ever met before, knew that from the minute i met her 2 years ago

Will let you know how i got on if i end up back at home

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:46

Gilly said:
See her face to face and explain the situation. Don't let other people dictate what happens in your relationship.

And never include anyone at work in anything that happens between you unless it is absolutely necessary.

I know, People have been putting on pressure for me to tell about whats going on, And ive said bits.

Just cant see it without her, even if were just close friends.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:47

VeNT said:
give her time to cool down.
don't keep contacting her cos that will make her mad.
tbh it looks like you've done it tho,
what ever did you say?

Told someone we were together last night, someone who she dislikes, and some things that we did, The big issue is shes 20 years older than me so people love to talk about it.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:47

She will never see this in 100 years, as she isn't into the internet.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:51

Yea im 17 until july, Shes 38.

Been getting on very well for ages now, and she really likes me. I will never go for a work relationship again as I'll be handing in my notice tomorrow unless it changes in 24 hours. She should be home in an hour, then I'll know for sure.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 21:59

agw_01 said:
Well... hmmm...

Dude, you say you've been together 2 years?

I'm astonished that it has worked out for that length of time! Is she like, 5ft or something? (No offence piggy )

Nah, I;ve know her and been friends for 2 years, Actually had something with her a couple of months.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 22:00

VIRII said:
Don't ditch your job over a woman for goodness sake.
You're so young that there will be loads more women before you find the right one. You've had a MILF - you'll be a legend amongst your peers. Now go find some girl your own age and enjoy it.

We work literally together, + the peopel that spread this **** about me,

Theres no way i can work this close to her now, + its only part time work anyway, not exactly a good job!

No swearing.

Otacon

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 22:04

andy2k said:
Nah, I;ve know her and been friends for 2 years, Actually had something with her a couple of months.

She's also about 5'5 and im like 5'8 ish. Just so happy when were together, she thinks ive let her down big style and so its over.

andy2k · 29 May 2006 at 22:11

But its the second time I've done it, Plus ive said some things to someone she dislikes.

We just spend most days together and have fun, thats why i want it to carry on.

Im gonna go any see her in a minute, Wish me luck.

andy2k · 1 Jun 2006 at 22:41

Sorry about the way i post! Well i went to see her, things are bad but i'm going to try and sort it out. Might be able to. Yes she's married, he's not 100% sure whats going on with me and her and doesnt really mind.

andy2k · 1 Jun 2006 at 23:02

I've never slept with her

Just most of the other stuff, He knows i spend a lot of time with her, but doesn't know anything is going on. It wont go any further either.

andy2k · 1 Jun 2006 at 23:14

Gilly said:
Attention seeking?

a lot of people think that!

I just seem to have a really nice time when i'm with her, she is very different to everyone else i know. She said when im older she might look differently at the situation in a couple of years. Although she thinks it's just a phase im going through.

andy2k · 1 Jun 2006 at 23:16

Burly said:
doesnt he find it a bit weird that a 17 year old is spending so much time with his wife? are you trying to tell us he is an idiot?

A little, She's told me he can see i like her a mile of, but he has no problem with us being friends and hes not worried about me as im 17.

If she was my wife i wouldnt be having it at all, in a way he's to scared to stand up to her as she would tell him where to stick it.

andy2k · 1 Jun 2006 at 23:18

Mohinder said:
Sounds like she's right. I don't say that to be offensive, believe me.

I've told her a i genunily don't know. I find her very attractive and like nearly everything about her. We can spend a whole day together and it seems like minutes.

She's enjoying the attention i give her, and says i won't be there at the end of the year as i'll change, so its just a case of seeing what happens. She's very easy going and im going to see her in a minutes.