There is MASSIVE amounts of research out there pointing to the differences between successful people and unsuccessful people and most of it I have seen, read and considered points to 10-15 fundamental traits that I absolutely support, but the prime two that I will absolutely uphold based on my life experience is this.
1: Unsuccessful people put the blame for their failures on others and look for a hundred reasons to justify their unsuccessful life.
2: Successful people will take responsibility for their own failures and successes.
Of course than then sees the unsuccessful discuss luck and privilege...so see point 1, this thread and every single thread like this is a clear demonstration of that.
Booo hooo the capitalist state.
Booo hooo 1 person owns the entire world
Booo hooo those rich people.
Booo hooo my school was bad.
Booo hooo my mum and dad beat me up.
Booo hooo my nan took drugs.
Booo hooo I never get the jobs 'cuz of the management, who are all idiots'.
Booo hooo if I only had the opportunity the bum lickers did I would show em.
Booo hooo I only work the hours they pay me for....
Booo hooo the system isn't fair to the poor
Booo hooo I always get overlooked and I'm better than those who don't
Booo hooo something something something dark side
I could go on, but it's been said here millions of times on this forum and forums all over the world. The yea but argument to this simply proves the point. These arguments fall apart when you start to point to people, many of them, who could say all of the above but are now hugely successful. Stop moaning, stop passing the blame to the system, the rich, the government, your own personal circumstance. You can get busy dying or get busy living, it REALLY is your choice. Sorry to sound like that American bloke with the big teeth, but frankly EVERYONE can make a change, most simply don't because it's too hard and far easier to blame everything around them that they feel stops them. I absolutely support that it's easier for some people, but that misses the whole point if all you do is use that as a reference for failure.