Right.. What do I do?

[FnG]magnolia;20976566 said:
You move on. You're young and there are lots of girls out there who are better suited to you.
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This is true... Let's hope I can find one
 
Shayper said:
The problem is I've found a lot of people.

They've never turned out to be nice though.

After sleeping with 19 girls I'm a bit disillusioned :(
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So you're basically a manwhore and you want to find a nice girl to have an actual relationship with?

You're looking in the wrong places. If you find a girl and she gets into bed with you like that then it's a good bet that she isn't a keeper.
 
Kamwah said:
So you're basically a manwhore and you want to find a nice girl to have an actual relationship with?

You're looking in the wrong places. If you find a girl and she gets into bed with you like that then it's a good bet that she isn't a keeper.
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I don't know man... I've been in a few relationships but none of them have worked out right :(
 
Shayper said:
I don't know man... I've been in a few relationships but none of them have worked out right :(
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No offence but maybe you should look into why you feel the need to be in a relationship and (assuming) constant one night stands instead of just enjoying life with your friends and focusing on your future with your uni work?

I'm 20 myself and all my good friends are just like yourself, they feel the need to be in a relationship and I have no idea why. I've been with my GF for 4 years and I met her at college and now we're both in the same uni.

All I can say is sometimes it's just better to chill for a bit.
 
You're only 19 dude! Chiiiill! You're so young! You dont have to settle down right now, you can have fun and sleep with people, but if you're not happy doing that now then that's fine too, but all you can do is let it happen.

And it happens when you AREN'T looking for it. Enjoy Uni life for now, it doesnt last forever, get it all out of your system, then the right person will come along, and stay for the ride :)
 
Out of curiosity, what is the distance? I managed to keep my relationship going and we were 50 miles away and only saw each other once a week
 
Unfortunately there isn't much you can do. if shes not willing to give it a go before you've even gone back then changing her mind won't work because in the end it will fizzle out further down the line Anyway.
if I was really into a guy then I'd give it a go, I wouldnt give up on it unless I wasn't that interested/couldn't see it working long term even if they were in the same town.

I'm told things happen for a reason and sometimes I do believe that so maybe it wasn't meant to be with this one but you're still young. concentrate on your studies then after uni you can think about long term. who knows whilst your studying and not looking one might come along.
 
Dunno it's highly possible there are 52 weekends in a year. Going out 2 nights a week since you were 18 means 20 girls in around 200 possible nights out.... seems about right.
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Ask why relationships aren't working out, see if there is a common theme. If there is, then it's likely that you are bringing it in. I've found that when seeking a girlfriend they don't come along, so just take it easy. Concentrate with university and friendships and just have a good time. If a girl comes into your life that is worth keeping then fantastic, go for it. If it doesn't happen, then don't worry about it. One will find you eventually.

Also, long distance relationships at your age do not work. I had one with my high school girlfriend when I went to university and we ended up resenting each other and had a god awful breakup. Don't do it.

flibbage0 said:
How is it possible to sleep with that amount at 19/20 years old?
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Very easily.
 
Ahleckz said:
Also, long distance relationships at your age do not work. I had one with my high school girlfriend when I went to university and we ended up resenting each other and had a god awful breakup. Don't do it.
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Define "long distance relationship"

My fiance (girlfriend at the time) and I kept our relationship going for 2 years whilst she was at uni in Lincoln (the 3rd year I joined her) I used to get the train and when I past my test drive to Lincoln from Sheffield every week.

Anyone who says long distance relationships don't work just can't be bothered to put the effort in. I have a friend who sees his girlfriend every weekend, he gets the train up from Luton to Sheffield every weekend so don't tell me LDR's don't work
 
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