RIP Totality

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Hi Everyone

It comes with sadness that I have to report this but I know some people here used to know Doug aka Totality on these boards. Sadly for reasons currently unknown he decided to take his own life.

Doug was a really nice guy who helped me in the early years of my career progress and get promoted. He was one of my best friends and even though he moved away to New Zealand we always kept in contact. We had planned to do many things holidays etc but unfortunately these wont happen now.

It just goes to show that even though someone may seem happy on the outside and doing the things they really enjoy in life they can still be upset or have hidden demons.

He used to share everything with me before he moved away so this came as a complete shock to the system as we only spoke about a week before and everything seemed ok.

Sorry to be the barer of sad news but RIP Doug I miss ya buddy.

We both used to love Scrubs back in the day and this quote always used to make us laugh. Not that I believe in life after death but Ill meet you by milkshake pool on the lesbian cloud!!

 
people might remember him from his Green Ninja motorbike signature more then the name I guess. He was very much into his motorbikes and loved technology.
 
Maybe the mods could make a don't bottle it up thread or something in memory of Doug. Just for people to vent or get stuff out in the open. But then again that could be a minefield for GD I guess. Doug would be laughing at me for suggesting such a crazy idea.

But as others have said get help and speak out don't let it get to a crazy stage like this. The impact I have seen on his friends and family myself included has been horrible. Some people mostly likely don't think of the impact they will cause once they have gone sadly
 
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Fireskull said:
Oh my god I cant believe it :(

I was friends with Doug also, met through motorbike meets organised here.
He had been quieter ever since moving to NZ but still chatted every so often on FB, and to think I used to rib him for riding a kawasaki....

RIP Doug you were a good guy and you will be missed. :(
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I remember him coming back from that meet to my flat (we live together for over a year)and he told about loads of the people he had met up with I was gutted I didn't come but was busy. We never met fireskull but he did speak about you with much interest about your bike and I think you helped him or he helped you with something related to bikes could be remembering that.

We both lost a friend :(
 
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Fireskull said:
Yep I was trying to help with problems he had on his kwaka, and I remember him checking up on me after I had my accident, just a genuine nice guy.

This is how I will remember him, he always had a big smile after we have been out for a ride.
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If I didnt understand something he taught me, if I had a problem he would help me, if I needed a night out he came with me, if I buggered something up he would cover for me. The list goes on.

Doug was one of those guys you meet once and you knew he was genuine and helpful guy. I was lucky enough to know him for over ten years and he helped me so much and we had so many good times and adventures together. Still so sad he is gone!
 
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