RSS Warning : Fortnite is Being Blamed For a Rising Number of UK Divorces

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Whilst everyone should be able to spend a bit of time to themselves doing what they want to do, if it gets to the point of neglecting your partner, then I'm really not surprised.

I tend to do my gaming if my Mrs is tired and has an early night. I'll be on my pc for a few hours getting a session in. This way it is not impacting on our time together.
 
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I don't really get the desire to play these things so much anymore, i got burned out after a couple thousand hours of TF2, and hundreds in BF2/CoD and such. I guess i'm just not afflicted with addictive personality traits, bored relatively easily.
 
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their partner was probably watching something crap on the TV they are so addicted to though.

although should divorce a partner who's playing fortnite, isn't it a game primarily played by teenages and children.
 
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Are they necessarily being crappy partner for doing something they enjoy? Maybe they're playing games to the point of neglecting their partner, maybe their relationship has other problems and the blame is being put on the game. Maybe their partner has unreasonable expectations that the vast majority of their free time should be spent entertaining them

I love playing computers games but I have priorities in my life and sitting on front of a screen for hours isn't one of them.
 
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I wonder how many divorces happen due to Rocket League? One. More. Game.

Im slightly addicted rocket league.
Its because you can play it for. 10 mins or 3 hours. I can't play most games unless I have an hour spare. Problem is that 10mins often turns to 1 hour. Gf has said before I play it too much.
Generally play before she gets home. Or after she's in bed now.


Ironically. She introduced me to it!
 
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I don't really get the desire to play these things so much anymore, i got burned out after a couple thousand hours of TF2, and hundreds in BF2/CoD and such. I guess i'm just not afflicted with addictive personality traits, bored relatively easily.

Most people playing games are really just socialising, they're generally sat on voice comms having a blast with their mates
 
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Most people playing games are really just socialising, they're generally sat on voice comms having a blast with their mates

Pfft i'd rather take drugs (alcohol... calm down) collectively than that at this point, or board games.

I enjoy being with people more though, so oh well.
 
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Pfft i'd rather take drugs (alcohol... calm down) collectively than that at this point, or board games.

I enjoy being with people more though, so oh well.

Sounds about right to me, although I’m not much into board games, aside from Scrabble once in a Blue Moon, the only “drug” I got into was alcohol, although the very occasional joint was virtually mandatory in the sixties, plus I enjoy boozing more when surrounded by other devotees too.

This is why you find someone who enjoys the same hobbies.

Maybe you were only happy meeting girls who liked meccano sets, or model railways, but when I was “in the life”, I looked for girls with attractive faces and nice figures, someone who enjoyed my penchant for eating in good restaurants, and spending weekends in Paris, Rome, or Madrid, now that’s a great hobby.

One of my friends has to sit and watch TV programs with his wife on an evening when he wants to play video games with the rest of us, poor guy.

He doesn’t HAVE to, if he doesn’t want to, he can say what I’d say, “thanks, but no thanks, you want to watch something on TV that I don’t like, knock yourself out, I’ll be in The Mayflower, unless you want to record it, and come with me.”
 
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I don't really get the desire to play these things so much anymore, i got burned out after a couple thousand hours of TF2, and hundreds in BF2/CoD and such. I guess i'm just not afflicted with addictive personality traits, bored relatively easily.

Not sure if this post is supposed to be ironic?
A couple of thousand hours? That's almost 1/4 of a year on 1 game!
 
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Maybe you were only happy meeting girls who liked meccano sets, or model railways, but when I was “in the life”, I looked for girls with attractive faces and nice figures, someone who enjoyed my penchant for eating in good restaurants, and spending weekends in Paris, Rome, or Madrid, now that’s a great hobby.

Obviously attractiveness comes first, and if it's just for some action then that's all that matters. But anything more serious, then they've got to at least be interesting and like similar things to me.
 
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Not sure if this post is supposed to be ironic?
A couple of thousand hours? That's almost 1/4 of a year on 1 game!
Team Fortress 2 is an 11 year old game, if we take the worst case scenario and assume it has only been played over 1 year then that's 5.5 hours per day(assuming 2000 hours played). To me that would signify a problem but if you take the same amount of hours over 4 years it only comes to 10 hours a week which seems more than fine and this is probably an underestimate of number years where the game has been played.
 
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