It's just that I don't want to end up looking like an ape with massive arms & shoulers and no lower body.
Also - Another reason for me signing up is becuase I'm going skiing in 3 months. Would excersises would you all reccomend?
Ps - Just found out that for today & tomorrow my local Gym are letting you sign up without paying a joining fee! Get in!
M8, you won't end up looking like an ape I guarentee it, if your worried about getting huge that takes years but ontop of that it also takes a diet with a whole lotta food lol.
I highly recommend weight training because without it, and you just sit on a treadmill all day or whatever you will end up either skinny pencil thin or skinny fat, I highly doubt you want either of those. When losing weight your not just losing fat you have the ability to catabolize meaning your muscle will soon get used up for fuel, this is why you see long distance runners, they are all skinny and look somewhat ill, sprinters on the other hand don't they weight train and do cardio (sprinting) yet they generally have very good physiques due to this.
I highly recommend you weight train at least 3 times per week, you don't have to neglect your legs, do a split like:
Mon: Chest/Biceps/Triceps
Wed: Back/Shoulders
Fri: Legs
That way your hitting each muscle group of your body meaning that your going to encourage muscle growth but also the fact that you will preserve muscle as you will help preserve as your always weight training. So at the end of the day this will leave you with a more muscular physique NOT huge! but "toned" since thats a common word used. See everyone here like CW, Morba, Jeffstar, MTA etc etc they all weight train with intension of getting bigger. They have been doing it for years yet they aren't ape like (well maybe for the exception of Morba

). But what im trying to say is you won't get huge whilst on a healthy moderate calorie controlled diet, doing a lot of cardio and doing weight training, you'll add definition but other than that you won't get "bigger" like your talking about.
But you should read up on articles just to see for yourself, every single person in this section has their own opinions on what they think is best, but what they think is best might not work so great for you? so find your own path. When I first got into this I read tons of articles and asked tons of questions, and there is no real definitive answer on what is right or wrong, it's opinion based.