Despite what a lot of people think, you don't have to spend all your money to instantly have "fun". This is pretty retarded. Just find a balance, go on holiday, but don't go on the most expensive holiday, buy a car but not the best you can get, buy a house, not the most expensive. It soon adds up.
You can have fun, live, save and achieve financial freedom, they are not mutually exclusive. Dont listen to all the people justifying why they spend all their money on ****e.