should i, shouldn't i???

Thomas. PLease. · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:21

Hi guys, not normally one to ask for relationship advice but i'm really torn on this one.

Basically I went travelling over the summer to asia, with three of my friends from uni, now two of the friends were a couple at the time. Now they were all coupley a lot of the time while we were travelling and that was fine, and I just mostly hung around with my other mate while we were there. Nothing happend that shouldn't have etc.

However after we get back about 6 weeks later the couple have broken up, two weeks after that the girl in question messages me asking that we should go out for "drinks". Now this girl is pretty hot if I do say so myself. But I don't think its right going off with my mates ex so soon, or even at all.

I don't know what to do, whether to just meet up, and see what happens or what? :confused:

Tom.

tres · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:22

jesus christ, man up!

gareth.e · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:23

Worst case scenario.... Talk to him about it.

edit: Put it in her bum.

kenshinu · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:25

Talk to him first.

If you wanted to be with her that bad you wouldn't be asking here.

Jon1818 · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:26

gareth.e said:
Worst case scenario.... Talk to him about it.

edit: Put it in her bum.

Lol you sir should be a counciller.

gareth.e · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:27

kenshinu said:
Talk to him first.

If you wanted to be with her that bad you wouldn't be asking here.

Well obviously he does.. As he wants to go the right way about it rather than a quick bang bang..

KaneStatton · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:27

Bag her, what are mates for anyway

kempythe2nd · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:27

i would say no, depends how good friends you are, i dont think i could be friends with anyone that went with out my ex so soon after i broke up with her

Andrew1978 · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:27

Who do you want to **** more your mate or her

Pilky01 · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:27

gareth.e said:
Put it in her bum.

Totality · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:30

whatleytom said:
Hi guys, not normally one to ask for relationship advice but i'm really torn on this one.

Basically I went travelling over the summer to asia, with three of my friends from uni, now two of the friends were a couple at the time. Now they were all coupley a lot of the time while we were travelling and that was fine, and I just mostly hung around with my other mate while we were there. Nothing happend that shouldn't have etc.

However after we get back about 6 weeks later the couple have broken up, two weeks after that the girl in question messages me asking that we should go out for "drinks". Now this girl is pretty hot if I do say so myself. But I don't think its right going off with my mates ex so soon, or even at all.

I don't know what to do, whether to just meet up, and see what happens or what?

Tom.

Be sure to post back again after you try putting your hand down her pants and find out that she only wanted a friendly drink

kenshinu · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:31

gareth.e said:
Well obviously he does.. As he wants to go the right way about it rather than a quick bang bang..

Well no. "Love is blind". So if he felt that strongly about her he wouldn't care about the consequences. Have the urge to get a "quick bang bang" is on a different level.

Maccy · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:33

There's nout wrong with just going for drinks.
If it proceeds into something more then talk to him about it.

gareth.e · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:34

gareth.e · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:34

kenshinu said:
Well no. "Love is blind". So if he felt that strongly about her he wouldn't care about the consequences. Have the urge to get a "quick bang bang" is on a different level.

We all (most) have a conscience and morals..

He may well be asking for some form of approval regardless of the fact he will move in and bang her anyway..

Rich1988 · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:43

gareth.e said:

Win

mr tommo · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:51

Depends totally on how good mates you are with him, and how close they were as a couple.

If it was a mate that I like then I wouldn't go there at all.

KaneStatton · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:52

mr tommo said:
Depends totally on how good mates you are with him, and how close they were as a couple.

If it was a mate that I like then I wouldn't go there at all.

I choose women over mates,
Is that bad?

apeZ · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:55

To be honest, if I had strong feelings for someone, regardless of whether they were a mate's ex or not, I would go for it...

Pilky01 · 30 Oct 2008 at 20:55

KaneStatton said:
I choose women over mates,
Is that bad?

Was she hot?