Sleeping Arrangements

HEADRAT said:
Then expect to see you little girl being had against a tree on some police programme, or maybe in your bed while you're out!
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I very much doubt it, but thankfully I don't have a daughter. I rule with an Iron fist in a velvet glove and this has worked for me so far.

I know quite a few places where it is good to do it outside so maybe I'd pass on some wisdom...:D:p
 
My mum was ok with it from 16+ but my dad 18+ and he still wasn't happy with it. Personally i think at 14 you shouldn't be allowing them to sleep in the same room.
 
LordSplodge said:
I know quite a few places where it is good to do it outside so maybe I'd pass on some wisdom...:D:p
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I can remember me and an long lost X walked for miles in park to find a "secluded spot" for a spot of outside action, the poor women who walked past with her Westie got more than she bargained for!
 
My mum was fine about my girlfriend staying over, although i still can't stay at hers, parents won't alolow it. We have been going out for over a year now, shes 17.

:/
 
HEADRAT said:
Who needs a double bed ;) only had a single bed at Uni, nothing like spooning up with a hot girl in a single bed!
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Thats all well and good for a night or two a week, my girl at uni moved in with me (she had a room 2 doors down and never used it!) try sleeping two people in a single bed for 7months every night.

I once wrote a note to say I've gone to sleep in her room as she passed out drunk and spread across the whole of the bed. She read the note upon waking up half and hour later and went to her room and jumped in bed again with me and proceeded to steal all the bed with her drunken rolling around.
 
i am a twin with a sister.

i was able to date freely and have girls over all the time from the age of about 15

sister on the other hand tried to suggest ot my father she was going on a date at 17 and although it was allowed there was so much redtape fro her to get through before it happened.

to be fair this is probably how i would go about it.

i agree with above posts that rather have them do it in the house make sure they have access to plenty of protection etc.. but most is make them comfirtabel speaking to me or their mother about it!
 
HEADRAT said:
I can remember me and an long lost X walked for miles in park to find a "secluded spot" for a spot of outside action, the poor women who walked past with her Westie got more than she bargained for!
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Oh I am familiar with that:

"Oh yes, yes, yes! YES! **** people!"

Queue very quick panic dressing and assuming an innocent expression (well as innocent as you can get with a tent pole in your trousers and a wife with massive nip on) :o:eek::D
 
Knubje said:
My parents never gave a rats, but I am male which makes the world of difference.

If I have a daughter, ideally never (she can move out if she wants some lad kipping in a bed and room that I've paid for).

If I had a son, whatever age :)
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****** me off that its one rule for girls and another for boys.

My brother has been allowed girlf's staying in his room for years earlier than I.

Its only in the last year I have been allowed and I'm 28!!! GRrr! :mad:

BB x
 
Same as you BB, I hate the inequality between girls and boys.

My Dad once screamed at me down the phone that I was a **** (similar word to slapper) when I was 22 because I wasnt coming home and was staying at my boyfriends house, and they wouldnt let any men stay over at mine (bear in mind I was a virgin til I was over 18, so it wasnt like I was that young) Yet my brother was allowed a stream of girls in and out of his bedroom to sleep over from the age of 16.

Just because its a boy and theyre "sowing their oats" or whatever, theyre still doing it with someones daughter, and so it should either be the same for either boys or girls or not at all.

/rant.
 
my gf (now ex) stayed with me when we where both just 17, but had been together a year anyway.

it was alllllllll goooood. but then we where always careful......... not to wake the parents ;) :p
 
I met Sic when I was living away from home (at uni) my parents knew he slept over in my halls (I was 18/19) - my room at home was being built - so when we stayed there, we both stayed in the lounge!
They had no issue when i got my room back, in fact when they were buying the bed for the room - they wanted to check it would be long enough for his height!!

I think when your kids move out, and they show independence / responsibility then there should be no issue with them bringing back a 'long term' partner, but if it's randoms every week - it'd be awful!

Before that - oh no!
If your child gets pregnant / stds etc - then you have done nothing to prevent this. I'm not naive enough to think that this won't happen outside of their bedroom 9pm-7am, but i dont think that parents should openly give their consent to it - which they would be if they let / encouraged sleepovers from a young age
 
When I was 18, my ex stayed over in my room....I was on the sofa downstairs though as my mum didn't want me sharing. She couldn't care less now, but my GF's parents still don't like the idea of her staying at mine, or even the thought of me being at hers when no-one else is in. I don't like not being trusted :(

I can see why parents don't like having boys staying over with their daughter as if something goes wrong, it's the girls life that is ruined rather than the blokes, but a certain amount of sensibility and trust has to come into play as well. I'd probably be as strict with my kids as my parents were to me, and just say no-one in your bed till you're 18. Keeps it nice and fair then, and they will hopefully be mature enough. If they want to sneak around and do it behind my back, that's fine, just as long as they're careful.
 
I was allowed to have my ex stay just before I turned 18. My parents cracked because his parents didn't care at all, so it was either let him stay and see me or I'd stay at his more often. I think my parents were right, however I don't know anyone who was stopped from getting up to anything by not being allowed to sleep in the same bed.

EDIT: One of my friends had quite strict parents, so she used to go off in the car with her boyfriend instead. If someone is determined to have sex, they'll find a way to do it.
 
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