I have just last month bought my first house (2 bed terrace)
I used to think it was impossible, until I actually bothered saving for a deposit
Being two of us earning obviosuly helps too
took me 15 months to save £20000, with a £35k wage (A month working abroad and on call weekends helped too)
misses had £10k
bought a £175k house with a £26k deposit, and get a decent rate of £750 a month (15% deposit is the key for getting decent intrest rate)
its not impossible, had to just cut out rubbish spending and only buy stuff you really need, take every oppertunity you can to make some money too
Im really not bothered about "making money" on it - just was very very fed up of rubbish letting agents bugging you with nonsence extra charges and invading your privacy, If better rules on renting were introduced then id imagine i would not have even been bothered with buying
I have to live in southampton too, which isnt bad really but certainly not as nice a place as id like to live
The bit that suprised me was how frantic the market is for first time buyers trying to get small houses - all the houses we looked at would get offer accepted (at least asking price) on the first day of being on the market (including ours)
Hopefully will only have to move again once more to something bigger, maybe in a nicer area, but thats at least 10 odd years away.
House market is a mess though - 1 or 2 nice small houses a month in a 30 mile radius, a load of rubbish 70's / 80's ones that no one wants or a brand new tiny flat in a maze of "affordable housing"
NIMBY's are what is stopping large numbers of new houses getting built round here too
Also lots of people buying houses, splitting them into two flats and then selling each flat for the price they paid for the house