Hey,
currently looking for a fume extractor for when i'm soldering (SMB, PC/Laptop motherboards etc)
I open a window and blow a fan across and out the window

Gets a bit cold in winter.
Also in regards to solder wire I see leaded is recommended as it brings down the melting temperature, can anyone recommend one? I did purchase some a while ago but it's extremely thin and lead free.
There's a number of alloys used for soldering, I'd stick with the known brands - MGChemicals, Weller etc to ensure the impurities are kept under control:
Leaded - typically 60/40 tin/lead. The old stuff and melts at a reasonable temp.
Lead-free - this is where there's a bit of a rabbit hole, however generally the melting temp is higher. The exception is Bismuth blends which melt at lower temps but also form brittle joints so most don't use it.
The leaded vs unleaded is a quasi-religous debate..
I use this lead free SAC305 compliant (basically means it's decent mil-spec stuff) tin/copper (with 2% gold to help prevent problems with gold contacts etc)
I see you've mentioned SMD. I've also got some solder paste too - this is good stuff and I've done quite a bit of SMD work - use the flux pen below to clean the pads etc. Again this is a lead-free tin/copper/gold blend that's thermally stable and doesn't need to be stored in a fridge:
It takes a little getting used to coming from leaded, but I'd also recommend:
* a solder flux pen - this has a fibreglass tip that cleans along with the flux:
https://eu.mouser.com/ProductDetail/MG-Chemicals/837-P and helps make the solder flow better and create a better joint.
* desoldering braid - this helps mop up excess solder:
https://eu.mouser.com/ProductDetail/MG-Chemicals/426
I'd get a decent solder sucker removal tool - just make sure it has a high heat resistant nozzle rather than the cheaper plastic ones:
https://cpc.farnell.com/weller/7874b/esd-safe-desoldering-pump/dp/SD01651 I have a draper one IIRC..
Lastly - get some 99.8% iso-propyl alcohol and some Q-tips. Irrespective of 'no-clean' claims giving the board and joints a wash
before and after improves things immensely doing SMD (such as removing unmelted paste balls). You can get a large litre bottle at places like APC Pure:
https://apcpure.com/product/isopropyl-alcohol-998-acs/ECE1007-D that don't cost and arm and leg. Just decant some into a smaller screw lidded bottle for working from.