OP but I might drop you a message as I've just signed up to that so interested in your thoughts on it.
Interesting post that says a lot about modern days psychology. If the same event had happened to an equivalent OP in the 80s he would have thought nothing if it. Fast forward to today it he instantly assumes she comes from a broken family of alcoholic or druggie parents and is silently suffering a life of sexual abuse, bound to end up one day walking the streets.
Not sure why the OP is taking such a beating in this thread for doing a decent thing.
To be fair it's only a couple of posters, and ones which seem to be known as being a bit 'special'.Cos people are *****.