Sort of annoying... girl related but not relationship

Soldato
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I've been told by two girls this year "i did'nt think you were the kind of guy who'd give me the time of day"...now this miffs me as i'm not some kind of studly looking macho man with muscles to kingdom come and oozing sex appeal. I'm told i'm good looking but not exactly the shiniest apple on the tree, even my mum told me that lol. It 'may' have some to do with the way i dress, i usually wear a left earring and big chain with some name brand threads but i don't think i look all that and really have no idea where girls think i would'nt bother with them.. also my mate told me its maybe because i treat girls too nice, chivarly, manners etc. but its just the way i was brought up, hes telling me girls are suspicious of our type.. any thoughts?
 
thats nothing, until you've had the last couple of weeks like I have, especially in the last hour, you've had it easy !
 
One was hot, one was very beautiful, not fire hot but she weren't no dog :) If i heard it once i'd prolly write it off as a line used to brush me off, but twice AND word for word? btw they don't know each other so its not a conspiracy :D
 
I dont mean to sound rude but with out pics you sound like a pretty boy chav, this isn't a bad thing as lots of girls like the bad boy appeal with out the bad boy, post pics and we will brutally (even if you like it or not) tell you how we think you look.

Also if you think im posting from behind a screen my pic is on rogues gallery.

KaHn
 
Not a pretty boy chav :p I'm a yardie who looks Asian/Indian (think Trinidad etc..) who grew up in North London, and i guess i do tend to dress more black as thats how i grew up, who knows maybe that threw em off. BTW not wanting to get in too deep but one girl was white and one was half portegeuse and half philipino.
 
Can't be 100% certain about this as you didn't give us how the full conversation went, but it seems like it may have been a bit of rhetoric flirtation.
 
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let the wailing and gnashing of teeth begin :p
 
I'm going to sound rude here so please dont take offence,

You look like a million other people I know.

KaHn
 
Justintime said:
Guess i've gotta keep the fighting the good fight then lol.

Why? You have two girls who like you, pick the one you are most compatible with and go from there, dont be a dick to either of them as you will probably lose them both.

KaHn
 
KaHn said:
I'm going to sound rude here so please dont take offence,

You look like a million other people I know.

KaHn

I wouldn't say that but my personal opinion is that skin head / very short hair can rob some people of their character on first impressions (or just plain give the wrong impression). Don't take it the wrong way thats just mho. Maybe it just means you have to try harder to get people to know you :confused:

That said after an OCUK makeover you could look like this:

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Are you in? We could make it happen.
 
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