Stainless still gets scratched and unless looked after will stick.
I'm a fan of hard anodised as ts truly non sick. However I have accepted they will need replacing every 5-10 years, but it really depends on how you treat them.
Any pan is the same, if treated well will last ages, if treated badly they won't. Copper, stainless steel, cast iron, hard anodised, ceramic. Will all get damaged and ruined if miss treated.
And a fair bit of personal taste as well.
I like ceramic for casserols etc, I find you get more to deglaze, where hard anodised is supper non stick so you don't get those extra flavour bits in them.
And anything super hot or want to retain heat, cast iron.
Like knifes it may not look as nice, but get the best for the job, rather than sticking to a matching set.