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split with gf after 4yrs
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I'd be surprised if she is pregnant. My wife has epilepsy and is on a combination of keppra and lamotrogine. She has been on the pill since we met 13 years ago. We have typically doubled up on protection though have pulled the goalie fairly regularly without issue. I can totally empathize with the side effects of keppra. It was a bit like PMT, but constant and to the power of 10. Fortunately the side effects of keppra thinned out over time and whilst her consultant wants to see her totally fit free, we have opted to keep things as they are, as the side effects were more trouble than the fits themselves.
Its a big commitment staying with someone with a condition like epilepsy, and there is no shame at all in walking away if its not for you.
Its a big commitment staying with someone with a condition like epilepsy, and there is no shame at all in walking away if its not for you.
Thank you that's very reassuring to hear, I don't think she is trying to pull anything to be honest I think it's a genuine situation where she has been feeling I'll , she may or may not be pregnant and has not taken a test for it yet but will be doing so at the end of this week every week for the duration of this month till her red lady comes to visit if the feeling continues. Her and I both know it is over and I don't feel this is an attempt to keep me around more just her letting me know there could be that 1% chance and if so we will deal with it come the time in a proper fashion but it won't preclude us getting together again.
She had proper Keppra rage at times I wanted to be there by her side to support her through it but it just wore me out
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Fake pregnancy is a favourite for jilted women, if he gets back with her she'll either get pregnant ASAP to hold onto him or "lose the baby" when she feels secure enough, having never proven she was actually pregant to start with.
Murah if she is pregnant chances are you now have 6-9 months to consider getting back with her, otherwise I suggest doing as I did, tell the girl you'll support her and the child, but you're not getting back together - watch how quickly she "loses the baby" and moves onto another guy.
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Also splitting with her good choice, being around people who drag you down is just a fast way to a ****** life.
It sounds harsh but you have to get away from people like that. It'll only drown you too.
Also splitting with her good choice, being around people who drag you down is just a fast way to a ****** life.
It sounds harsh but you have to get away from people like that. It'll only drown you too.
I'm in a good mood today because our lord and saviour Jesus Christ has risen.
She obviously has had a troubled life and these new drugs really don't help.
If you dont love her/that person anymore then you have done the right thing.
Why is an abortion off the cards? If that is actually even real?
Good luck getting over all this but as others has said get away and try and be happy.
God bless you
She obviously has had a troubled life and these new drugs really don't help.
If you dont love her/that person anymore then you have done the right thing.
Why is an abortion off the cards? If that is actually even real?
Good luck getting over all this but as others has said get away and try and be happy.
God bless you
