Interesting - I found Skyrim especially boring, and FO3 not much better. I generally find Bethesda worlds pretty bland. ME's combat isn't great, but the storyline is exceptional. The first game is a bit slow, but the second and third are fantastic.
I bounced off W3 first time around, but have since persevered and it's also very good.
Skyrim grabbed my attn from the get go, Fallout 3 also quite soon. Skyrim's dungeon design is so awesome sometimes, but I got gripped from the intro to slaying your first dragon, I was hooked. Later on I was amazed by the world: e.g. the first time you enter the dwarven cities, as is the difference in landscapes, e.g. the contrast between the 4 corners of the world basically. But the music helped a lot too. I liked the different cities and styles as well: Solitude and Markarth both wowed me. But Skyrim also uses nice colors for various things. Or the weather when you go up the snowy mountain in the middle. The music, I don't know why it stands out so much but I am very receptive for that. Reminds me older Settler games as well with nice peaceful music that turns into dramatic music on fights.
Fallout 3 is actually the game that got me into RPG's in the first place, I found it hard to get into before FO3.
You are right that Fallout 3 is not spectacular world wise. However, the atmosphere with the music playing in the background, the choices early on like help Megaton or blow it up in a huge nuclear explosion, it got me hooked. And I could play it like a shooter. Or like a sadistic little kid (shame you coulnd't kill the children in it

). Hell, first time I rushed through the main story within 3-4 hrs I think. 2nd playthrough I started exploring the world and rememebr being wowed by the things you cam by. Hearing nice 30's jazz while you are using a railgun to nail NPC's to your walls in your house is also epic

. I guess the blood and gore also adds a nice thing. I can't remember seeing blood or gore in Mass effect

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And now that I think of it, combat is indeed not special in Skyrim, I used to rush to dragonscale armor/deadric bow and then Thieves guild for a semi stealth ranged build. I would get raped in the late game by magic (I postponed Winterhold often). I think I have 3 playthroughs, first on a pirated copy (these days legit shops like Steam or GoG are easier than piracy so I pay for the convincience, while when Skyrim went out I was poorer) , 2nd on legit copy, and later a 3rd on the Steam special edition. Finished the main story twice.
Fallout combat I liked initially as you could play it as FPS well. Now with fallout 4 it does feel a bit bland, but to be honest I just turned down normal to easy difficulty to make fights quicker and follow the storylines instead and explore the wasteland.
Witcher 3 has clunky controls I agree (I would get Geralt stuck once or twice, but when on Roach, I would get stuck so often), but still fun to play imho, it does not feel like a chore, the cutscenes, the characters and the world makes up for it so much. The detail in the world in general and the scale of it is awesome. You could see something cool in the distance, go there, and not be disappointed. And the last playthrough I enjoy Gwent as well

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Cyberpunk felt more polished, guns blazing was nice, stealthy play was nice, even yolo melee was fun to do.
Finally, I think I'll grab Monster hunetr world as well, checked a few yt vids out, it looks entertainign certainly enough. I see the price is low outside of the steam sales as well on allkeyshop so no rush to grab it.