Tricky one that oli.
With a single sub you may find you'll need to adjust the db's either manually or with a remote if the the sub comes with one. You may need a boost for music in that respect but all rooms are different and you'll only know when you have one in place if you need another. And as Somnambulist quotes in #16 greater spl's with two.
Personally i'm going with sealed units as my listening is 95/5 music/film.
Thats a load of crap - no offence intended
If your bass reponse is how it should be i.e. close to a flat curve as you can get then it will suit all uses films, music it doesnt matter. The level will be set by the receiver to balance in with your main front L&R (+ Other speakers) - the level set will give you most likely the best crossover frequency performance between your main speakers and the sub.
Therefore by adjusting the sub level you adjust this as well which is not a good thing for either music or films
Once set right - its right for everything.
If thats not what you are getting there is a good chance your freq reposne / decay etc is off and I would strongly advise looking into it - Room Equlization Wizard is the way. a 500w 12inch sub is more than enough sub for the majority of rooms in an average domestic environment. Getting good bass reponse is much harder - and if overlooked all your going to get is one note bass or worse boomy bass
If you go with an Onkyo with Audessy of any sort it will set up your sub, using eq filters simialr to that in an antimode - if however you go for another brand such as Pioneer, Yamaha etc that doesnt have audessey - then you have little to no bass management and an anitmode is essential.
I have said it a 1000 times, having the best sub in the world doesnt mean you will get the best bass - its all about the sub positioning in the room its in and the room absoption factor which is often little to none without treatment. And thats for bass from 250htz down
99.9% of the time a sub has to go where life permits it - therefore an eq of sorts is essential to combat the rooms effect on its performance.
You will never find a owner of an antimode who says it isnt brilliant - thats rare for tech of any kind