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This week I have been called a bitch, spat on and yesterday a girl told me she was on her "rag" when I wouldn't let her go to the toilet. This year 6
Kids should also be able to use the toilet when they need to.
I don't need to ask permission to go to the toilet during work.
Your boss also probably doesn't need to stop everyone else working every time someone needs to go to the toilet...
I get that when you gotta go you gotta go, but on the other hand, can you imagine how difficult it is trying to explain something to the class when you have to stop every 2 minutes and wait for 20 odd kids to go to the toilet?
No you shouldn't have to tolerate that behaviour, and I'm pretty sure spitting on someone is technically classed as assault (purely based on watching various police camera action type shows).
The problem is, as others have posted, you're often fighting a losing battle trying to undo what the scummy parents have spent the last X years teaching them
As a parent I am not going to write a note to let teachers know my daughter is on her period. That is pretty much a private matter for her. In class I have no desire to ask a girl if she is on her period, as a teacher I have no need to know. Therefore if a student asks to go to the toilet I normally ask "Can you wait until break?" if they say no, then I let them go. If a child spat on me they would be out of the lesson very quickly and have at least a day at home and I would expect an apology before I let them in my class again.
So you could be expecting a child to go over two hours without going to the toilet. Especially first period as they may have had a walk to school without an opportunity to go. They might be Y6 but they are still kids.
You also want every girl on her period to bring in a note from their parents? What justification is there for that invasion of privacy, especially as you are dealing with girls that may just be starting their period?
Is it really too much to expect a child to go a couple of hours without a wee?They are kids, forward planning is not really one of their strong points. As both a parent and a teacher I think that your policy is too draconian.
Yes, because it is unnecessary. There should be opportunities for a child to go in those two hours that won't disrupt learning much at all. What do you think you are achieving by making them wait? Do you think you are teaching them self control or just teaching them to resent you?
Is that really something that someone who is a professional should be instilling in children? It sounds incredibly petty and all it is likely to do is breed resentment.
You can't plan when to go the toilet.
Why is it different? The toilets aren't available during my lessons either.That's different. Facilities aren't available.
Providing the students are not left unattended that isn't an issue, considering that it could potentially be your duty to monitor the children during their breaks anyway it may be the only chance you get.
This must be a troll though, as it pains me to think someone who lacks such basic common sense and an ability to simply think can be an educator..
How do you know that one of those year 6's doesn't have a bladder problem though?
What if they don't want to inform you? or the child is insecure because of it?
Also making a child stand up all afternoon because they were swinging on their chair... that's a bit strong and I am not surprised they said they'll get their father to do what they said they would do.
Some may class that as child abuse. I know if you did that to my child for swinging on a chair I would certainly be having words.
You also are probably a troll.
What if they don't want to inform you? or the child is insecure because of it?
Also making a child stand up all afternoon because they were swinging on their chair... that's a bit strong and I am not surprised they said they'll get their father to do what they said they would do.
Some may class that as child abuse. I know if you did that to my child for swinging on a chair I would certainly be having words.
You also are probably a troll simple for the fact why would a female come to a PC enthusiast forum and start whining about this?
Lol at the total bell ends infesting this thread. "if you told my child what to do I'd blah blah blah" and then they wonder why kids have no discipline or respect! Idiots.
I always go to the loo before a journey, but it's not out of the question to need it again 45 minutes later.