Thank you... (shameless relationship thread in disguise) ;)

[daveyj27]

it is gutless and cruel and ultimately more painful in the end. Just be honest.

Absolutely agree. As with most things, honesty is the best way to go.

I hope things look up for you in the biggest way possible BB.

 

[Freefaller]

I really want to hurt him but there is no point and no way now.

No point really - it'll just keep the pain alive, and stretch out the break up longer than it's needed. The best thing to do is keep active, happy and try as best you can to move on and not to dwell on it. The more you look for retribution, or "getting even" the further away from closure you'll get. If anything hearing it from his mum might be that harsh but bitter blow you need to go out with your head up, with a confident stride in your legs.

Rely on your friends, on us, on anyone you want to for support, and don't feel "silly" or "bad" for feeling sad and upset - but don't let yourself let it bring you down.

 

[SexyBetty]

The best thing to do is keep active, happy and try as best you can to move on and not to dwell on it.

Yeah, like coming up to see me, and we'll have a night out in good ol' Nottingham

 

[Otacon]

Yeah, like coming up to see me, and we'll have a night out in good ol' Nottingham

If you're lucky I might join you. Give you someone else to dance with

 

[SexyBetty]

If you're lucky I might join you. Give you someone else to dance with

I KNEW you were gonna pop your head up in here

 

[Rotty]

Liverpool was somewhat a whirlwind!

you aren't kidding , still great fun though

glad things are getting better for you , you deserve it

 

[Otacon]

I KNEW you were gonna pop your head up in here

 

[SexyBetty]

Well hopefully when BB is feeling up for it, we can have ourselves a mini meet in Notts, starting with cocktails at Casa Betty?

 

[Otacon]

Plan tbh

 

[SexyBetty]

Plan tbh

/makes note to buy cocktail book

 

[BrightonBelle]

\o/ aww thanks guys

Muchos dancing and cocktails - looking forward to it!



Just told my dad (who wasn't too 'dadish' about it surprisingly), going home this weekend for some much needed TLC and mummy cooking

BB x

 

[Rotty]

/makes note to buy cocktail book

and booze

 

[Davey_Pitch]

Not really spoken to you about this BB, but you can have some hugs from me (Lynne won't mind, I'm very huggable)

 

[Sepheh]

With my break up I am just trying to stick to the rule of I am better today than I was yesterday and I will be better tomorrow than I am today. I used to be the one everyone turned to advice about break ups, I must have given good advice, because I am getting told it now and it really helps. One day at a time though I guess!

 

[BrightonBelle]

Not really spoken to you about this BB, but you can have some hugs from me (Lynne won't mind, I'm very huggable)

Thats ok DP this is a shameless 'friend gathering make me feel better' thread after all!

And it is working!

So thank you!

BB x

 

[Hate]

its nice and sunny down here for your little visit

just sat and ate my lunch in the pavillion gardens

 

[BrightonBelle]

I think I need to find someone who is having a barbeque if the weather is going to be nice

BB x

 

[Freefaller]

It's nice and hot and sunny here in italy... but that doesn't help you much Though you're welcome to have a bbq here

 

[iBankAllDay]

It's nice and hot and sunny here in italy... but that doesn't help you much Though you're welcome to have a bbq here

Is there anywhere you go to work that isn't sunny!?

 

[BrightonBelle]

It's nice and hot and sunny here in italy... but that doesn't help you much Though you're welcome to have a bbq here

BBQ = London meet if I recall though it won't be outside and sunny... oh well.

BB x