The fine line of decency.

Threepwood · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:37

I, like many of you (one imagines) really loves the female form. Women are amazing in my book and the older I get the more I can see the beauty in most women.

Now a couple of friends think I'm just a total perv, whereas some of my more arty friends agree that I just appreciate the form of a woman.

I can see both points of view, but what do you think?

Where does appreciation end and perv begin?

LeJosh · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:37

Probably around that time your hand is reaching out to touch wobbly stuff.

Doomedspeed · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:39

LeJosh said:
Probably around that time your hand is reaching out to touch wobbly stuff.

Agreed.

matt_fsr · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:46

Milkybk said:
I don't think it anything to do with appreciation/perv, I think it's more to do with you desperate ongoing battle to lose your virginity.

Bit early to be drinking anyway isn't it?

Touche!

Shayper · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:48

Apt username for thread title

Cosimo · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:50

You just need to got out and get laid. Go do it.

shifty_uk · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:53

Milkybk said:
I don't think it anything to do with appreciation/perv, I think it's more to do with you desperate ongoing battle to lose your virginity.

Bit early to be drinking anyway isn't it?

Made me laugh

A quick glance of appreciation is fine and having a hot girl I fully understand it but when it comes to guys having a good prolonged stare, it's just uncomfortable for everyone.

Guys in general seem a bit desperate though

Edrof · 13 Jan 2012 at 10:54

I could stare at women for hours!

jake108 · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:00

Edrof said:
I could snare at women for hours!

Fixed

Threepwood · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:02

Haha, nice try on the lose your virginity/go get laid comments

I'm 34 with 3 kids and more sexual encounters than I could possibly count. I'm confident with my own sexuality, but that is besides the point.

The thing is, it's not all about sex. That's the point. I truely, deeply, appreciate the female form! There are so many women I could look at for an age... and not just the classicly beautiful, my eyes are attracted to all kinds of women.

Yes, I agree one fine line would be touching them

, I have to admit I'm a very touchy feely person with both my female and male friends... but no, I dont go upto strangers in the street and start touching them up! It's more the eyes, not the hands.

Yes Edrof, I feel the same, but dont get me wrong shifty I'm aware of when having too much of a look is disrespectful. This is why I dont think I'm a perv, I honestly think I just really appreciate the female form.

jake108 · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:12

shadesofgrey said:
I have to admit I'm a very touchy feely person with both my female and male friends...

Crikey! Hilarious thread. 5 stars!

Do you watch Torchwood per chance?

JonJ678 · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:12

shadesofgrey said:
Women are amazing in my book

I wouldn't go that far

Freefaller · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:20

Looking is different to leering and staring.

Have a look and thinking "isn't nature wonderful", reflecting for a second or two, smile and then going back to what you were doing, is in my opinion absolutely fine.

Stopping everything you're doing, and staring, nigh on fantasising or winding yourself over the girl you're staring at is not really right IMO.

HEADRAT · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:22

Boobies > *

Showboat · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:22

Hold old are you talking about.... 30 year old women, 40...... Dare i say 60-70-80....

Threepwood · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:25

Do you watch Torchwood per chance?

I see what you did there

no, I'm not a fan of torchwood, but I really enjoy Dr.Who, hello Amy Pond.

I'm from a well loved up generation, which I am very thankful for tbh. There's nothing wrong with being touchy, huggy, hell even kissy with male friends. It doesn't mean you're homosexual :rolleyes:

if anything I think it's just a natural way of showing how close you are, as friends.

nigh on fantasising or winding yourself over the girl you're staring at is not really right IMO.

Yes, totally agree.

Hold old are you talking about.... 30 year old women, 40...... Dare i say 60-70-80....

All of the above, yes, it's not just sexual remember! I remember my dad once said that as you get older you start to see older women differently, I never believed him but I'm starting to understand what he means. Yes, I can appreciate the look of a much older women... you can start to see what they looked like when they were younger, and not only that, an old face can tell such a story when you look with open eyes and dont just go 'Urg, I wouldn't dick that'. Catch my drift? EDIT: Must add, some older women are hot as ****, but my sexual intrest starts to drop off around the 60 mark.

Freefaller · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:30

I'm a fellow touchy feely/huggy person. It's nice

mrk · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:36

shadesofgrey said:
I see what you did there no, I'm not a fan of torchwood, but I really enjoy Dr.Who, hello Amy Pond.

I'm from a well loved up generation, which I am very thankful for tbh. There's nothing wrong with being touchy, huggy, hell even kissy with male friends. It doesn't mean you're homosexual if anything I think it's just a natural way of showing how close you are, as friends.

Hugger Mugger alert!

Seriously though, that's fine but do you hug manfriends the same as women? Because that might be a bit weird

A manhug is the way I greet male friends/relatives who I've not seen in a while. That doesn't mean I reach for the arctic mountains when hugging females though :eek:

Threepwood · 13 Jan 2012 at 11:39

I'm a fellow touchy feely/huggy person. It's nice

Yeah, things like that are liberating for the soul. I'ld say it's actually normal healthy behaviour, that has been trodden down on in modern history. Hang ups are bad.