The fine line of decency.

shadesofgrey said:
I, like many of you (one imagines) really loves the female form. Women are amazing in my book and the older I get the more I can see the beauty in most women.

Now a couple of friends think I'm just a total perv, whereas some of my more arty friends agree that I just appreciate the form of a woman.

I can see both points of view, but what do you think?

Where does appreciation end and perv begin?
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Nothing wrong with looking or discussing.

If you were running around groping and justifying it by telling them you appreciate their form, well that's a different ball park :rolleyes:

I'm guessing the likes of Brad Pitt etc would be the only ones to get away with this :D



With that said, if I'm intimate with a girl I'm a complete ****ing perv, but it's OK as they reciprocate to it, depending on their mood it can go more than one way however :D
 
Hugger Mugger alert!
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Oh noes!!! Busted! :D


Seriously though, that's fine but do you hug manfriends the same as women? Because that might be a bit weird
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A couple, yeah. It cheers us right up if I were to be honest. But it doesn't mean we want to pirate each others bums, tho we will happily grab each others arses, it's not serious, it's just funny. Their girlfriends, absolutly love it tho, a real eye opener there.
 
hmm not too sure bout the bum grabbing, little bit gay :D
Posting this thread and its not even summer yet, thats when most men appreciate the female form ;)
 
shadesofgrey said:
There's nothing wrong with being touchy, huggy, hell even kissy with male friends.
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It started with a kiss.


shadesofgrey said:
ho we will happily grab each others arses
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Never thought that it would come to this.

It started with a kiss, Never thought that it would come to this.

It started with a kiss, in the back row of the classroom
How could I resist the aroma of your perfume
You and I were inseparable, it was love at first sight
You made me promise to marry you, I made you promise to be my bride
But you were only eight years old and I had just about turned nine
I thought that life was always good, I thought you always would be mine

It started with a kiss, I never thought it would come to this
It started with a kiss, I never thought it would come to this
 
What?!!

No!
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:) Without judging, I do think that's a shame. Not even as a child? I kiss all my kids on the lips, the boys as well as the girl. It's sweet. Deffo helps them develop less hang ups when it comes to affection.


Lol elmarko, good choice there, Bowie would be an excellent example of how one can be a man without having to be the stuck up, hung up, unemotional butch type! :D
 
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shadesofgrey said:
I dont think there is anything wrong with it, did/do you ever kiss your Dad on the lips? It's just a show of love.
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My Dad's a Romany Gypsy who left when I was 14 months old & I went & found him when I was 19 & a half, If I kissed him on the lips he would beat me sick. :p
No Hugs either we just look at each other all hard like. :D + :p
 
Where does the appreciation and the perving begin?
Right about here I reckon...
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:p
 
shadesofgrey said:
:) Without judging, I do think that's a shame. Not even as a child? I kiss all my kids on the lips, the boys as well as the girl. It's sweet. Deffo helps them develop less hang ups when it comes to affection.


Lol elmarko, good choice there, Bowie would be an excellent example of how one can be a man without having to be the stuck up, hung up, unemotional butch type! :D
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I jest :),

Personally, I'd find ass grabbing & kissing a bit much from my male friends - I'm happy with the aforementioned man-hug (for special reasons only) or bro-fist/hand shake or the infamous arm-punch - but each to there own.
 
I jest
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I know :)

Just say no if it bothers you, you wouldn't stand for it if you were a girl! (you probably do say no tho) It's got to be mutual ofc, thats the point I guess.

It's funny really, a lot of this must come from how fathers treat their sons, I'm so glad for my love drug fueled youth, otherwise I would be a racist, homophobic, unemotional nightmare!

Edit: While my father is still those things, as he has got older some of his view have started to mellow out. I've actually, come to think of it, kissed my dad more as an adult than we ever did when I was a child.
 
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