The fine line of decency.

G-MAN2004 said:
"kissy"? Despite the above being rather far on the homosexual side to begin with, it even sounds gay.



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Yes, you must find it terribly shocking that 2 men can kiss each other. It must be gay.

No, thats the point, some men can comfortably kiss each other on the lips without it being gay. It means something else.

These two must be gay right?
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Edit: While we are on the subject... whats wrong with someone being gay anyway?
 
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shadesofgrey said:
:) Without judging, I do think that's a shame. Not even as a child? I kiss all my kids on the lips, the boys as well as the girl. It's sweet. Deffo helps them develop less hang ups when it comes to affection.
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I was very close to my dad and loved him to bits, but it was always a hug! Kissing on the lips - even when my mum did it always felt weird!
 
TommyV said:
Nothing. But from an evolutionary stand-point in the millions of years to come for the human race, it's just not a feasible option :(
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Oh come off it, homosexualy is, was and always will be a minority group. The only thing that changes is people opinions on it.
 
I dislike close physical contact a lot of the time, so I'm probably clear on the touching bit :p.

The female form can be lovely, but then it can be awful.
 
I think a kiss on each cheek is far enough for me. :p

2 on each cheek if you really love the person. ;)

France taught me that.
 
I'm gonna jump in on this thread. OP, before the derail of man kissing, I totally agree with you on the woman appreciating. I'm sure some of you will be familiar with the ever-popular student poster entitled "kiss" with two women kissing on a bed. I find it beautiful and sensual (two wonderful feminine qualities), not "hot". It's the way you look at something that defines appreciation or perv. If you're imagining yourself banging them or getting a hard-on then you probably aren't just enjoying natural beauty. On the other hand, a beautiful woman is something I could look at for hours in a totally non-sexual way. Of course, there are shades of grey (see what I did there :p) where you can do both.

As for men kissing/grabbing asses etc, each to their own. I've been part of groups or had friends from cultures where all that was the norm, and I've been part of groups where it was "gay" to do that. At no point was I ever gay. I think people need to understand what constitutes sexuality a bit better before they assign attributes to actions.
 
I'm always staring at the hotties :D. I don't usually look into their eyes though or do anything that they would notice or find uncomfortable. My gf is always tutting at me for it, but she understands that it's natural to look, and even points out other girls sometimes if they stand out for whatever reason.

Intimate touching or groping people that are not your partner is weird though.

I think the line is basically whatever is mutually consentual. If one party is uncomfortable or the attention is unwelcome then a line has been crossed. It's up to us all as individuals to try our best not to cross the line, and if we do from time to time just just make sure we apologise and put things right.

I'd hate to think that I'd made a girl/woman feel uncomfortable or scared. I wouldn't want it happening to someone I care about, so I try to treat others with enough respect that they won't feel uncomfortable or scared either.
 
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