The op'r is eating a virtually fat free diet that you are all approving of, without quoting anyone else directly he is being told lean food is the way he should be eating with lots of fruit, also someone is recommending soya milk

, soya is full of phytates which are totally counter-productive to good health.
Fruit is probably the last food you should eat when on a weight loss program due to the blood sugar/insulin response. The general consensus around here is that saturated fats are bad and should be avoided, I see this written in numerous posts constantly, I'm sorry if i'm getting on my high horse here but i'm sick of reading this rubbish, low fat diets, high in fruits and grains such as the one being advocated here offer incomplete nutrition and are simply unhealthy.
Op'r, I'm glad you're shaping up on this diet but in the long term reduce carbs/sugars and increase natural saturated fats, you'll find it much easier to lose weight and keep it off this way as well as building a far more robust immune system.