So yeah... Once again the lunatic is back to causing as much stress for me as she possibly can. Some of you may remember my last thread about her wanting me to move back to her town and how it went from being fairly reasonable sounding yet entirely manipulative to just a FUBAR request that was as nutty as squirrel turds!!!
Well you guessed it the maniacal bint is at it again...
Over the past two weeks I have received torrents of abusive texts, full of threats how if I don't do what she says she is going to stop me seeing my kids yet again and how if I don't move back then she will move in with this "boyfriend" but that where she is moving, I won't be able to afford to get there etc etc etc.
I've not responded, other than to try and ascertain where it is she is planning on moving and who she is moving in with which she flatly refuses to divulge. Which leads me to believe there is no one and she isn't going anywhere and even if there is someone else she is actively trying to avoid doing it for some reason!
This is a woman who constantly claims to despise me, accuses me and my family of wretched and horrible things when she doesn't get her own way... seems to believe a court order is optional and she can do what she wants without consequences etc trying to berate and bully me into making her life easier for her!
What makes it more interesting is a lengthy phone call I had on Friday with the "child in need" team... we discussed concerns over the kids yet when I raised the issue of the threats of the ex partner moving in with someone.. the woman seemed quite taken aback, claiming that they have been speaking with the ex as to if there is anyone else and that she has told them no on multiple occasions. They also seem to share my concerns of the effects a move like this would have on my son's still fragile emotional state and mental health!
So she is either lying to me, or them or both and either way that doesn't bode well for her.
This then followed by a weekend of more abuse, threats and general stupidity including my personal favourites "the problems with psychos Vidar is that they think everyone else is the problem and not them" and "your only sayin no cos your still love me and angry at yourself"
Erm...... how's about no...
But she is determined to keep threatening withholding contact as per the order, refusing to tell me where it is she plans on moving too and generally not considering the effects on the kids... So I find myself wondering if now is the time to find out my options about taking her back to court...
I mean she got residence based on the fact the kids where settled, and that upheaval would be detrimental to my sons mental health... now she's possibly moving them away to somewhere she claims I won't be able to afford to get to etc so I wonder would a court now consider a change of residence as I would be prepared to move back to their town so they didn't have to leave their schools etc and that wouldn't it be better for their mental states to live with Daddy full time than to move god knows where with some man they apparently haven't even met yet?
Well you guessed it the maniacal bint is at it again...
Over the past two weeks I have received torrents of abusive texts, full of threats how if I don't do what she says she is going to stop me seeing my kids yet again and how if I don't move back then she will move in with this "boyfriend" but that where she is moving, I won't be able to afford to get there etc etc etc.
I've not responded, other than to try and ascertain where it is she is planning on moving and who she is moving in with which she flatly refuses to divulge. Which leads me to believe there is no one and she isn't going anywhere and even if there is someone else she is actively trying to avoid doing it for some reason!
This is a woman who constantly claims to despise me, accuses me and my family of wretched and horrible things when she doesn't get her own way... seems to believe a court order is optional and she can do what she wants without consequences etc trying to berate and bully me into making her life easier for her!
What makes it more interesting is a lengthy phone call I had on Friday with the "child in need" team... we discussed concerns over the kids yet when I raised the issue of the threats of the ex partner moving in with someone.. the woman seemed quite taken aback, claiming that they have been speaking with the ex as to if there is anyone else and that she has told them no on multiple occasions. They also seem to share my concerns of the effects a move like this would have on my son's still fragile emotional state and mental health!
So she is either lying to me, or them or both and either way that doesn't bode well for her.
This then followed by a weekend of more abuse, threats and general stupidity including my personal favourites "the problems with psychos Vidar is that they think everyone else is the problem and not them" and "your only sayin no cos your still love me and angry at yourself"
Erm...... how's about no...
But she is determined to keep threatening withholding contact as per the order, refusing to tell me where it is she plans on moving too and generally not considering the effects on the kids... So I find myself wondering if now is the time to find out my options about taking her back to court...
I mean she got residence based on the fact the kids where settled, and that upheaval would be detrimental to my sons mental health... now she's possibly moving them away to somewhere she claims I won't be able to afford to get to etc so I wonder would a court now consider a change of residence as I would be prepared to move back to their town so they didn't have to leave their schools etc and that wouldn't it be better for their mental states to live with Daddy full time than to move god knows where with some man they apparently haven't even met yet?
