The wingman

Shayper said:
She lives in Kings Lynn, I live in Norwich, she was meant to be staying round a mate's in Norwich tonight (which meant she would have been able to come over) but her dad picked her up too early :(. Ah well :)
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I don't think it was her dad who picked her up...
 
Richie said:
I agree with the first part of this but not so much the second part but ONLY for 1 good reason - as far as I am concerned, your mate didn't really cheat. By the OP's description, he only kissed her until the OP managed to get the good looking girl and then he high-tailed it. IMHO this is different from him both wanting AND doing something whilst in a relationship i.e. there was no emotion involved in the action which most women relate to as cheating more than the physical actions.
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What if the only way his mate could pull the hotty was if he came back to hers/his with him and shagged the mat as well? Would that not be cheating because he "didn't want to do it" and was "taking one for the team"? In my book, kissing another girl for your mate in the capacity of wingman whilst you're also in a relationship with another girl is cheating and 'wingman' isn't a legitimate excuse. You can't just say "oh there was no emotion involved so it wasn't cheating". Women don't buy that, not sane ones with any ounce of self respect anyway.


MuttsNutts said:
NOW THAT IS A WING MAN - he took all that for me to get with this hottie :-) I have yet to return the favour..... LOL
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Agreed, that is a wingman. Reminds me of Gavin and Stacey a bit though.
 
J-FRO said:
What if the only way his mate could pull the hotty was if he came back to hers/his with him and shagged the mat as well? Would that not be cheating because he "didn't want to do it" and was "taking one for the team"? In my book, kissing another girl for your mate in the capacity of wingman whilst you're also in a relationship with another girl is cheating and 'wingman' isn't a legitimate excuse. You can't just say "oh there was no emotion involved so it wasn't cheating". Women don't buy that, not sane ones with any ounce of self respect anyway.
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Kissing and shagging are totally different....

To be clear (as this is GD after all), kissing is as far as it can possibly go in the scenario the OP put.
 
Weird??!?!?! I got a text from you early morning. And the evening explained in the text doesn't sound the same ?! :p

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Psycho Sonny said:
Freefaller is right, guys in relationships shouldn't play wingman, surely you have a mate who isn't in one?
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I did NOT say that... I said the wingman shouldn't "pull" if he's in a relationship - he can still be a wingman and do his wingman duties, but if it's going to compromise his relationship then absolutely not.

Sure some people will disagree, but it just doesn't sit comfortably with me, if you're with someone, irrespective of the "reason" or excuse, it's still not on in my eyes. However, I will admit it does depend on your relationship, I know some people are more relaxed about that sort of thing and some couples wouldn't even bat an eyelid for something as "innocuous" as that.
 
Way too far Imo. Feel sorry for the Gf. Kissing is still kissing. He had the choice to do it or not. He chose to.

If it was all innocent every guy would end up using that as an excuse "no babe I HAD to kiss her so my friend could pull her mate " then it would probably escalate to "I had to sleep with her I was being his wingman" :rolleyes:
 
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