too easygoing

Trust me though, being a woman, its really really not attractive when a bloke is a doormat, and just wants to do what you want all the time, and worships the ground you walk on. You just end up wanting to upset them so you get a different emotion out of them other than nice.
It is ok to be mad or ****** off with a girl sometimes, and to admit that, or to have an opinion different to the girls, trust me they will respect you more for it. Plus then you get to make up after. :D
 
Big Chris said:
I'm certainly guilty of the last statement too, sucks to be honest but it's kinda who I am :).

Yeah me too. Then I realised why. Then I realised that the reason why I was that way didn't apply. Now I realise I don't have to be that way, particularly when there are more interesting ways to be.
 
cleanbluesky said:
Yeah me too. Then I realised why. Then I realised that the reason why I was that way didn't apply. Now I realise I don't have to be that way, particularly when there are more interesting ways to be.
Very true, you're kinda asking for a kick in the teeth being in this frame of mind.

Right, I'm off to pull down some trees with my bare hands and wrestle with bears.
 
cleanbluesky said:
Yeah me too. Then I realised why. Then I realised that the reason why I was that way didn't apply. Now I realise I don't have to be that way, particularly when there are more interesting ways to be.

So what is your all-new, interesting persona like then? Is it similar to the forum persona? :D
 
cleanbluesky said:
You mean to say you wouldn't want to meet me on the street?
If we met on the street we'd clash and collapse into a singularity causing us both to disappear off the face of the earth. I want another few years of my life before anything like that happens.
 
Scuzi said:
If we met on the street we'd clash and collapse into a singularity causing us both to disappear off the face of the earth. I want another few years of my life before anything like that happens.

So you'd say that you'd be attracted to me as if by mavity?

I was just a little confused, you seemed reluctant to think that I am like my forum persona.

I was just curious as to what you didn't like.
 
cleanbluesky said:
So you'd say that you'd be attracted to me as if by mavity?

I was just a little confused, you seemed reluctant to think that I am like my forum persona.

I was just curious as to what you didn't like.
You never know, I could very well be attracted to you ;)
 
cleanbluesky said:
So you were just kidding a little while back when you told me you didn't like me?
No. And this is a perfect example of why.

Smile big boy, my initial post was a joke :)

Anyway, back on topic.

EDIT: I had a dream that a friend of mine who you know and myself ran into you in a shopping centre and we had a coffee. That was weird.
 
Scuzi said:
No. And this is a perfect example of why.

Smile big boy, my initial post was a joke :)

Damn, that's no fun. I, on the other hand, am a champion of fun.

EDIT: I had a dream that a friend of mine who you know and myself ran into you in a shopping centre and we had a coffee. That was weird.

I imagine it was. Did he spit at me then told me he loves me? :D
What did I look like?

You know, the funny thing is that if he just sent me a normal e-mail, I would have actually replied.
 
cleanbluesky said:
I imagine it was. Did he spit at me then told me he loves me? :D
What did I look like?
On the contrary, the three of us got on like a house on fire.
You kept changing, one minute you were an early 20's, well spoken guy wearing a lounge suit and the next you were mid 40's, wearing a tracksuit and had a strong Essex accent.
Like I said, it was bloody weird.
 
Scuzi said:
On the contrary, the three of us got on like a house on fire.
You kept changing, one minute you were an early 20's, well spoken guy wearing a lounge suit and the next you were mid 40's, wearing a tracksuit and had a strong Essex accent.
Like I said, it was bloody weird.

Your unconscious is quite sharp my friend.

It has perceived something of me that I think you would consciously choose to miss.

Or maybe not, maybe it means something different to you than it would to me.

I'll give you a cookie if you tell me what it means to you. Go wild, interpret metaphor - even if you think it's silly...
 
ash59 said:
just wanted to ask do any of you people have trouble whith being too nice and too easygoing, people calling you too soft, and taking advantage of your nature.

Yep, all the time. I do tend to be a very good judge of character though and don't normally fall foul of being taken advantage of.
 
ash59 said:
just wanted to ask do any of you people have trouble whith being too nice and too easygoing, people calling you too soft, and taking advantage of your nature.
Yep, definately.
Been taken for a ride more than my fair share of times. I have, however, decided to grow a pair and give some people a good talking to next week.
 
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