Touchy feely friends

If not a troll thread, you need to tell your wife asap.

This has the potential to spiral very quickly (women are psycho and can invent any story) you will come out the bad guy for not telling your Mrs.
 
ethan said:
What does lardy da mean-storm in a tea cup?
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Also, the first part, la de, or lardy, spell it how you wish, is a bit of almost passé Cockney rhyming slang for cigar.
e.g., “I saw Dave at Ascot races, he looked the part, best suit, and puffing away on a lardy.”
 
Scrutinize said:
And this public forum...

If you felt this was all ok, and in-case this isn't some troll fantasy thread, then you would have already told your wife already.

Regardless of the internal relationship of this other couple and motivation towards the behaviour to you, walk away and put some distance between you all.

You are already allowing feelings and interest to develop towards the intention.
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Exactly! and in the process laying schmalzy excuses about like Easter eggs for us to read, and he to assuage his guilt.

"Ethan"] It would probably go a lot easier on me if my mate could give me a good tonguing- which he has been known to do on other people, in front of the Mrs, than any of this -even though I'm not gay.
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Metaphorically? Needs pics if not so...:)
 
ethan said:
Lol you guys never fail to entertain. I am in a pickle though. The lady in question told me she loved me last night and that the only people that know about it was her, myself and her husband. Bearing in mind I haven't encouraged anything, I'm left wondering what the end result of this is going to be?
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Well that is down to you, you can tell her to back off a bit or just carry on being friends and make it clear that you're just interested in being friends with her.

Many, no doubt will find this amusing, but on a more serious note, there are children and families likely to be hurt on both sides. I don't even know how this has occurred and I'm likely not going to talk to the Mrs about it because people, including her, are going to get hurt. Surely I'm not the only one on this forum who this may have happened to?
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I don't see why children and families on both sides are going to be hurt - you've not done anything. She's potentially got an issue with her relationship that she needs to resolve with her husband.
 
dowie said:
Well that is down to you, you can tell her to back off a bit or just carry on being friends and make it clear that you're just interested in being friends with her.
I don't see why children and families on both sides are going to be hurt - you've not done anything. She's potentially got an issue with her relationship that she needs to resolve with her husband.
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He is or has gone in for the kill, note the emphasis is his quote:
likely to be hurt on both sides
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He's a bit of an old rascal, maybe a cad? depending on your leaning.
 
I don't see why children and families on both sides are going to be hurt - you've not done anything. She's potentially got an issue with her relationship that she needs to resolve with her husband.
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Thanks for the advice Dowie. I think when she first made her feelings apparent to me I just froze. I didn't know what to say or do and just ignored it (some weeks ago). Women say "love you" a lot apparently. What I didn't know and couldn't understand was why she felt she had to tell her husband and under what circumstances was it he was told? I don't know if she told him in anger or for help and i was only told this two days ago. I'm all for her sorting her relationship out with her husband-because despite everything I would want the best for her. I really wouldn't want to lose her as a friend either. I think what I need to do is talk to her and find out what the heck is going on though I'm not getting the chance and it's causing me a lot of turmoil.
 
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