iCraig said:
Because it's called a discussion. RTM my posts if you feel they shouldn't be there or something. I'm repeating my points because he hasn't answered them enough for me to understand yet. If you're finished with this discussion, fine, don't assume others have.
He hasn't answered my post from the last page, which I was interested to hear his opinion on.
I didn't say "risk it by talking to another guy" I said "risking it by groping a bloke with unknown response" He might have a gun for all you know. Martial artists learn this by not getting into fights into the first place. Distance yourself from it. Groping a bloke will mostly likely have a fairly obvious outcome, unless you're in a gay club. To think otherwise is pretty foolish, no matter if your intentions were just flirting. And he's probably got mates who are drunk also ..so it can only get ugly. All this for a simple bum squeeze.
I did answer it earlier on. I wouldn't take a offense a man talking to me about usual bloke stuff (I have had conversations with gay men btw) nor if he asked me out. But I would if he started touching me up, trying to push his luck/flirting. No means no. And he continues he would deserve a punch to the face. Again what is wrong with a single punch? Granted wouldn't kick him and stuff, that's going to far.
A woman can defend herself like the reverse, like I said earlier. If I received a punch to the face after chatting/getting refused/then groping- pretty much a greasy slimeball- I would only have myself to blame, and generally a full punch from a woman is a light tap. She'll probably get one of her male friends to beat you up. And she can always do the knee in groin to disable a bloke.. oooff
edit and also because vast majority of rapes are by men towards women I would agree that a woman has every right to be cautious/stop any slimeball.
So either sex can provoke a response by going to far, generally though male/male most likely involve fights, wheras male/female a slap or thrown drink to the face. My point about natural world that men are more prone to physical confrontation, civil laws/society can't get rid of it. ie look at the "norks" thread. And you can't disprove that. Unless you're religious and believe we're totally different to animals, on the basic level when it comes to the basics.
