twisting gf

Stop being cheap and buy a car with parking sensors.

Either that or smash her head on the dashboard. The sheer shock of this action should be enough to stun her until you can park.
 
I came into this thread expecting some talk/images of a contortionist girlfriend...I was quite disappointed with what I found...a beta male.

Seriously, I don't think any of my exs have ever done this and my girlfriend certainly doesn't. Only twisting that she does is turning almost anything I say into something dirty...but I do that too, so it's fine. :D
 
Been there got the t-shirt dude, my current fianc'e was abit like this always twisting things, but like ppl have said Man Up.

Whenever she starts playing games i come out with comments like "let me get a chess board if you want to play a game" women want you to get angry and argue to see how much crap you will take.

if takes abit of experience but when you know there playing a game just be cool, the best tool is to catch them out when they start playing i just say " i know what your being a head **** and im not playing your silly games" she hates it.

sounds to me that she has a low self-asteem and has to bully you to make herself feel better.

also seeing your other posts, dont fall into the trap of her making it your fault, thats manipulation do you take responsibility for her actions!
 
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Thread title led me to think of something completely different! Disappinting thread is disappointing :(

But in answer to the actual question - hell no, if my wife had been twisting stuff like you;re saying constantly, she wouldn't have been the one for me, we get on great, and don't play the blame game all the time!
 
I get it sometimes, usually if she has said something that has hurt my feelings or upset me (amg not alpha enough i have feelings!) somehow she tries to twist it so it's me that has upset her! Things like that, wouldn't change her for the world though ;)
 
unfortunately not all women are like this, it's because at first they trap the male to them thinking everything is great. then a couple of months down the line once the male gets relaxed they play the manipulation, it's a test and everytime you fail they get more control. when a women gets angry it's not a cue to argue back.


it's hard but once women have let of steam you either have rampage sex or they apologies.
 
Beasty said:
I get it sometimes, usually if she has said something that has hurt my feelings or upset me (amg not alpha enough i have feelings!) somehow she tries to twist it so it's me that has upset her! Things like that, wouldn't change her for the world though ;)
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nice to see someone else in my boat and man enough to admit he wouldnt change her. too many good points out weigh the bad
 
dave1983 said:
Been there got the t-shirt dude, my current fianc'e was abit like this always twisting things, but like ppl have said Man Up.

Whenever she starts playing games i come out with comments like "let me get a chess board if you want to play a game" women want you to get angry and argue to see how much crap you will take.

if takes abit of experience but when you know there playing a game just be cool, the best tool is to catch them out when they start playing i just say " i know what your being a head **** and im not playing your silly games" she hates it.

sounds to me that she has a low self-asteem and has to bully you to make herself feel better.

also seeing your other posts, dont fall into the trap of her making it your fault, thats manipulation do you take responsibility for her actions!
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really good post dave, thanks

i think your right in that she does have low self-asteem and i also know that her mum was exactly the same to her dad when they first got together. so it must be something that runs in the family

last night i just ended up saying ok if thats what you think, she walked off and i sat around watching blackadder...30mins later she comes in all cuddles to make up :D
 
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I guess she is, compared to the ones in all these threads :eek:
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I look at relationship threads on here as the same sort of thing as Jeremy Kyle. Worth watching now and again to make you realise that things aren't actually all that bad with your life after all. Not saying the relationship I have with my wife is perfect, but she is an absolute saint compared to some of the threads on here. :)
 
markwilliams82 said:
really good post dave, thanks

i think your right in that she does have low self-asteem and i also know that her mum was exactly the same to her dad when they first got together. so it must be something that runs in the family

last night i just ended up saying ok if thats what you think, she walked off and i sat around watching blackadder...30mins later she comes in all cuddles to make up :D
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See, when she walked off, she was expecting you to chase after her, but you stood your ground and didn't. next time she starts are arguement and starts twisting things, bring her up on it say something like " if your trying to twist things it's not going to work" she will more and likely say that she's not just agree with her say " yeah ok but i know what your doing and im not going to argue with you". being in a relationship isn't about control it's about working to together as a team. unfortunately some or most women now test males because they dont want to get hurt, they feel that if they get close that they will get rejected. especially if they have a bad past, but sometimes they self-sabotage the relationship without realising causing things like this.
 
i never chase unless I know 100% I am in the wrong (which of course if never LOL) it always seems to work with my missus just to say yeah ok, let her have some time on her own and she seems to calm down.
 
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