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My son 8 years old, has recently started asking for a vr headset. Originally he wanted a gaming pc, but he's flipped to the vr headset.

I'm sceptical, a) not sure 8 years old is appropriate b) is it good enough to play games and what sort of games.

I should add he's been asking for a meta quest 3.

What's people's thoughts,

Should I stick to my current stance and say he's too young

Or is he ok age wise, but is there a better system out there than the meta quest


p.s I won't just be buying it for him, he will have to earn it over a period of time like he had to for his xbox
 
There was something somewhere about VR headsets messing with the development of kids' eyes. No idea on where that stands today, but it was a big point when I actually had a headset and looked into it years ago. That's worth looking into and validating.

Games in VR can feel a little too realistic at times due to the immersion. I would put serious considering into what their actions could be in the real world due to what they see in VR. Jumping into or punching a wall, etc., etc.. Having an appropriate space to use it is really important - even for adults.

Not sure what games are suitable for an 8 year old, but Half-Life: Alyx is ******* incredible if you do end up getting one.
 
a gaming PC is more versatile, and allows for him to do homework.
VR is cool and all but limited in focus. i would ask why h wants a quest 3.

if its for socialising with friends there may be an argument to have a family quest 3.

its a great social activity for families and friends but as a sole owner ect i feel a little to young.
 
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Dunno, depends if you want to give them eyestrain or not.

You could strap a bag of sugar to their head first to see if their neck is strong enough I guess.

So, no.

You can use that word with your kid too if you like.
 
Cheers all, this kinda sums up my thoughts.

Apparently his mates have one, and he's seen people on YouTube using them as well.

Everything he has is currently heavily locked down in terms of online chat and social media.

So I shall continue my stance of when he's older he can. I think part of him wanting one is that gaming pc is quite expensive and it's taking a little while for him to save up for it, I've told him he needs to save half and I'll buy the other half for his Xmas and birthday present.
 
Multiplayer gaming on Quest VR for kids is quite toxic. All the games like Gorilla Tag and Among Us 3D have awful online communities. It's also much harder to see what your child is doing or what other people are saying to them without streaming to a phone too.

I'd say it's fine for short periods under parental supervision, at least for single player games, but the effects on kids eyes and brain development isn't well understood yet if it's used for long periods.

Also if you did get one for your child NEVER let them play on the main account that purchases games. Always create a secondary account and have them use that. It's very easy for your account to be banned for online toxic behavior and lose all your purchased games.
 
Multiplayer gaming on Quest VR for kids is quite toxic. All the games like Gorilla Tag and Among Us 3D have awful online communities. It's also much harder to see what your child is doing or what other people are saying to them without streaming to a phone too.

I'd say it's fine for short periods under parental supervision, at least for single player games, but the effects on kids eyes and brain development isn't well understood yet if it's used for long periods.

Also if you did get one for your child NEVER let them play on the main account that purchases games. Always create a secondary account and have them use that. It's very easy for your account to be banned for online toxic behavior and lose all your purchased games.
Can confirm this - literally all of them are American 12 year old bullies
 
My son 8 years old, has recently started asking for a vr headset. Originally he wanted a gaming pc, but he's flipped to the vr headset.

I'm sceptical, a) not sure 8 years old is appropriate b) is it good enough to play games and what sort of games.

I should add he's been asking for a meta quest 3.

What's people's thoughts,

Should I stick to my current stance and say he's too young

Or is he ok age wise, but is there a better system out there than the meta quest


p.s I won't just be buying it for him, he will have to earn it over a period of time like he had to for his xbox

You will have most of the same concerns if you buy him a gaming PC or the VR headset. Is it appropriate? How to restrict his online access and keep him away from negative stuff. If you were buying him a gaming PC in what way would you monitor his gaming time? Would you just let him use the PC whatever he wanted in his own room? Or would you supervise his access, limit screen time etc. etc.

In one way the the VR headset might be easier to manage in that regard. You could keep the headset locked up and he could only play it for a limited time in the same room as you are. You could even have it cast what he is doing to your phone or TV.

As for the other side of things, there is no evidence to show that VR will cause any problems to young people. It's people speculating. It's kind of like when we were young and the same things were been said about watching TV or playing games on computer etc. It's about moderation. Whether it's a PC or a VR headset, I doubt you will have any problems with either as long as you stick to short periods of use with supervision.

LostCorpse did make a good point however. A PC would have more functionality. But maybe you have another PC around the house already, so that's not a concern.

The other point is that you could buy a second VR headset and join in with him. That way you will know exactly what he is doing and you might have some fun too. Walkabout Golf and games like that are really good in VR. Second hand 128GB Quest 3's are widely available at decent prices.
 
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It's not just VR though? A lot of online games are full of extremely toxic kids and adults.
True but I guess it's because you are more "present" in VR or the games are more party-style which makes it seem like they're everywhere in meta. I don't really play that many online games atm - mainly echo vr - so not an expert :)
 
True but I guess it's because you are more "present" in VR or the games are more party-style which makes it seem like they're everywhere in meta. I don't really play that many online games atm - mainly echo vr - so not an expert :)

It can feel more intense as it almost feels like people are physically present. Someone can be literally 'in your face' abusing you, and following you around.
Though most decent games have blocking mechanisms and safely 'bubbles' where people can't get physically close.
 
I would have been over the moon to have access to VR aged 8 :)
Really? How old are you? I got my first games console at 13 and my Amiga at around 15 or so.

I know the world has changed but 8 should be Lego, board games, riding your bike, football, swimming and smashing radio control cars around.
 
Really? How old are you? I got my first games console at 13 and my Amiga at around 15 or so.

I know the world has changed but 8 should be Lego, board games, riding your bike, football, swimming and smashing radio control cars around.
Agreed. We had one main screen in the house (telly) until I was 10. Our first secondary screen was a donated Amstrad from the 1980s (we were poor). And even then, I was only allowed to use it on rainy days for an hour at best. Looking back, outside was the right place to be.
 
Really? How old are you? I got my first games console at 13 and my Amiga at around 15 or so.

I know the world has changed but 8 should be Lego, board games, riding your bike, football, swimming and smashing radio control cars around.

I'm early 40s and can't remember a time that we didn't have a computer of some sort, the one I really remember would be the amiga, and that was when I was 8 at the oldest, if not earlier. The world has drastically changed. Kids aren't allowed, expected or accepted outside very much now. I'd much rather my son be playing vr than watching youtube, tv, or xbox etc. It's more active and social in a way that the others aren't.

My son 8 years old, has recently started asking for a vr headset. Originally he wanted a gaming pc, but he's flipped to the vr headset.

I'm sceptical, a) not sure 8 years old is appropriate b) is it good enough to play games and what sort of games.

I should add he's been asking for a meta quest 3.

What's people's thoughts,

Should I stick to my current stance and say he's too young

Or is he ok age wise, but is there a better system out there than the meta quest


p.s I won't just be buying it for him, he will have to earn it over a period of time like he had to for his xbox

8 is young to have his own headset that he has full control of in my opinion, but it's easy to simply place in a cupboard. My son used to use mine when he was 8. Not for long periods, strictly games I knew about. Even when he plays with randoms now, he's muted (now 13). He's had his own headset for some time now.

In terms of development, there was some minimal research showing that up until the age of 10, children can struggle with manipulating movement in unconventional ways (I can't remember the study exactly, but it was along the lines of using the head to change the direction of flight, along with joysticks). They struggled to get it, whilst older children had development sufficient sense of balance and adaptation.

I wouldn't put him in rollercoaster sims etc, but see what it is he wants to play.

I would not get him a quest 3 or a 3s, most games still play fine on a q2, and the q2 controllers have nice big tracking rings made of titanium, which will probably prevent some very sore fingers. First purchase I made when my son got his q3 a month or so ago, was some protective rings, that are already not sitting on as well as they did!

Ask him what games he wants to play, who are the friends (are they people you know already? Do you want him hanging out with them?), and tell him that it will be limited.

A second hand q2, often with headstrap (which will be essential), will set you back £150 max, it will also let you know if it's just a phase, or something he really enjoys. As he gets older, and if he continues to enjoy it, he can earn his way to a q3.

As others have said, a PC can of course have more uses for school etc, but my son has been supplied with a chromebook from school, which is more than sufficient for his schoolwork, this is secondary school though, maybe investigate if something similar will happen for your son. Again, chromebook like headset, is far easier to take away than a full PC.

If you do get him one, make sure the primary account, that the games are purchased on, is yours, and password protected, open a secondary account on the headset with app sharing enabled, so he can play the games, but if the account is terminated for any reason, you don't lose your primary account with the actual purchases.
 
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