Wedding predicament

So if you don't go, you will likely damage your friendship. He is going to be with this person and you need to accept that.

Frankly, unless you really have a real reason making you unable to attend, you should go. It's not about you, it's about your friend.
 
Just go and keep the Phone/Camera handy for the near the end photos of people to show us all.

Are weddings in a Church like concerts these days? With everyone sat there with their phones out recording?
 
We have an invite for a friends wedding (evening do) to which i'm going on the stag do. He asked already if we can make the evening to to which I said yes
Both me and my partner don't really get on with the bride to be, but have only met her on a few occasions.
Do we put a no to RSVP card when/if one comes or just go and keep the peace with said brige for my friends sake?

It's not like we're going to see the bride numerous times in the future but I always think the stag do is the guys celebration and the wedding is the womans (in hetro he/she relationships anyway)

Lol

Way to support your friend bra
 
Just go and keep the Phone/Camera handy for the near the end photos of people to show us all.

Are weddings in a Church like concerts these days? With everyone sat there with their phones out recording?
Most of the time you're asked to keep your phone away during the ceremony so the actual photographer can get some proper pictures and the person behind you doesn't have to watch through your screen.
 
Honestly how do some people wash their face without drowning?!?!?!?

He is your friend and you obviously mean enough to him for him to invite you to his wedding, unless you've had massive arguments or fist fights with his bride to be all you need to do is smile when you see her, thank her for the invite and say she looks lovely (doesn't have to be true but it's only 1 little lie), you will likely not see her again for the rest of the evening, sit with your other mates, get smashed and have a great time.

If your current partner cannot be in the same room with someone they don't like just for an evening then it's time to take a look at your own issues as most adults can cope for the sake of the greater good.
 
Going on the stag but not invited to the whole day? Seems odd.

Anyway, go to the evening and show your face.
 
Go, you might not even bump into the bride as they're notoriously busy and seeing everyone else, cutting cake, dancing etc etc. The wedding goes incredibly quick for the bride and groom.

You already said yes, you might have a laugh anyway.

My first thoughts. Unless it's a small wedding, you're likely to say hello at the start and not see her for the rest of the night.
 
Bloody hello just go!. Ya wont even barely see her apart form a small hello chat and thanks for coming convo, sit about a few hours and have a few drinks.
 
There's history here somewhere, someone has dipped the others partner in a past life.
Not at all. She's just quite stuck up which we (me and partner) both hate in people in general. But yes, i'll go for my friend. Will leave it up to my partner if she comes or not.
Thread can be closed
 
Mines younger and fitter if thats helps
but is she an above average model?
Lol

Way to support your friend bra
support him in what way, does he need his hand holding, his lines remembering, bit of help with the wedding night? :p
Going on the stag but not invited to the whole day? Seems odd.

Anyway, go to the evening and show your face.
yea summat amiss. guessing op and the friend either aren't as pally pally as op thinks, or the bride to be has forced ops mate to shunt him down the invite list.
 
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If its free Booze, you can be arsed, its not too far, hes actually your mate, it will be fun, then go Jesus its your mates do. Your mates wife could be part of your mates life for the rest of his life.
Sounds like your mate isn't quite your mate, which is fine, ive also not gone to weddings i should have but thats life. Be honest to yourself and mate.....
Now if they are both Autistic i would also like an invite, i will fly to the UK.
 
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