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shifty_uk said:
That's my exact thinking. Why bother? But you wouldn't employ someone with criminal convictions, would you?
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So he uses FB to check out Gay Guys and you want to report him to management as a criminal?

You had better have some significant proof of wrongdoing before you accuse someone of that kind of thing.

He is only 18 himself so unless you have evidence or a serious suspicion that he is grooming children I would suggest simply removing him from your FB friends list and leave it at that.
 
Castiel said:
So he uses FB to check out Gay Guys and you want to report him to management as a criminal?

You had better have some significant proof of wrongdoing before you accuse someone of that kind of thing.

He is only 18 himself so unless you have evidence or a serious suspicion that he is grooming children I would suggest simply removing him from your FB friends list and leave it at that.
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Yes. Fair enough. I was asking advice, no need for the high horse.
 
shifty_uk said:
He's openly bisexual. That's not weird at all. What's weird is he sits and chats up/adds random young foreign boys.
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I got a bunch of mates who randomly chat up foreign girls (well any girls actually), on FB, in the Pub, anywhere for that matter.

Thats not weird, it's called being single and horny.
 
What a weirdo. Not so much his lifestyle, but more the fact he would happily let all his new colleagues see his lechery :confused: No need to take it too the management though (unless you think any of these dudes are seriously underage :eek:) - just delete him or block his updates.
 
shifty_uk said:
Didn't see this descending into a 'OMG, you hate gays' :rolleyes:

I work with two gay chaps already, they think his habits are weird, too.
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You ask the fellow people of OcUK what you should do about someone who is gay? Now THAT seems weird to me. Can't you choose for yourself what you think you should do?

These males under the age of 16? Now that may be creepy, but you need to ask yourself this, is what he is doing actually causing you any issues? Is it ruining your life? If your answer is yes, then talk to him, dont involve others...and if your answer is no, simple, end of the matter, let him do what makes him happy, he aint hurting anyone...
 
shifty_uk said:
Yes. Fair enough. I was asking advice, no need for the high horse.
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I just don't understand the "criminal" reference.

There is no "high horse", you just need to be careful when reporting someone for this sort of thing, you could be completely wrong but the stigma would follow the poor kid forever.
 
nydryl said:
Pffft all the fit young boys go to Rev...
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John Street scares me after Speakeasy opened. Militant lesbians aren't my thing. Committee Rooms is good though, and good food.
Polo is actually quite nice, nice fires. I took a girl there one night, and ended with some action (from her, may I add!)
 
Nothing different to what a lot of guys do with girls.

Completely hilarious that you even considered reporting him when a] it has nothing to do with work and b] it's totally normal.
 
Look, I'm not saying there's a criminal reference. I'm not saying I have an issue with his gay ways. The fact that we work in an environment that deals directly with the public, is a cause for concern when he's online talking to young boys under the age of consent?
 
shifty_uk said:
Young. I saw a picture he'd commented on where the boy looked pre-teen, with just a towel around him, I think he was Portuguese or so.
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Ok, if the boy is a child then you can report it to Facebook. That is all you need do.

That way if the boy is a child and is being groomed then they can trace it and take the appropriate action. If the boy is not underage then they can confirm this and ignore the report.

Either way, you have done what you need to do and have not gotten personally involved.
 
Castiel said:
I got a bunch of mates who randomly chat up foreign girls (well any girls actually), on FB, in the Pub, anywhere for that matter.

Thats not weird, it's called being single and horny.
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I notice you and others keep ignoring the "young" part of it, I think it's pretty clear that his concerns lie in the age of the people, not their gender. :p

for example "I saw a picture he'd commented on where the boy looked pre-teen" that's clearly his concern, not the fact that he might be gay.
 
shifty_uk said:
Look, I'm not saying there's a criminal reference. I'm not saying I have an issue with his gay ways. The fact that we work in an environment that deals directly with the public, is a cause for concern when he's online talking to young boys under the age of consent?
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Even if you KNOW these people are under 16, are people under the age of consent allowed not to experiment with their feelings? Not allowed to even fancy other guys or kiss? You don't know that he's bumming 13 year olds.

Just drop it.
 
kylew said:
I notice you and others keep ignoring the "young" part of it, I think it's pretty clear that his concerns lie in the age of the people, not their gender. :p

for example "I saw a picture he'd commented on where the boy looked pre-teen" that's clearly his concern, not the fact that he might be gay.
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Look above your post.....:o

18 is "young" to me. And when he mentioned "pre-teen" I posted what you see above your quoted post.
 
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