What are you doing for Valentines?

BL@#DY WOMEN!.
Listen to this right, my mrs, who curses you if you say she's materialistic, last year I booked a nice restaurant for a meal but thought i'd surprise her. So all month i told her that i'd cook a nice romantic meal coz we didn't have much money. She did nothing but moan and complain all month that we wasn't going out. the grief i got. anyway turned out nice in the end when i told her we 'was' going out, but still, defo not worth the effort, this year i'm telling her from the start "we're going OUT!" lol.
 
Nothing, GF says it means nothing. I agree, its like men are forced to do something on that day. So it means nothing to do something when society dictates that you must.

Doing things un-expectedly is far better, as an example, last week I spent hours cleaning the whole house whilst she was asleep (I got in late from training). I put some roses in a vase for her on the table in the lounge so she would see it when she woke up in the morning in a spotless house.

Little things like that seem to work better than overblown forced valentines gestures.. (in my book :))

Agreed 100% - we're going to go out for dinner later that week and just enjoy ourselves without battling it out with over booked restaurants and overpriced flowers.

You've got it completely right. Send your missus flowers out to the blue - she'll appreciate it much more (either that or think you've got something to be guilty about and dump your cheating ass :D). But seriously it's the little things that count, not the one day of the year that is dictated by a crap commercial day dreamed up to sell roses at overinflated prices.
 
Going out for lunch, then a cosy night in to avoid the madness that is valentines evening, all shuffled in and out of restaurants like animals at feeding time. Was gonna start a rant, but i'll restrain myself :)
 
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Just bought the missus a car. 3K :eek:

I have informed her that her present means I am in credit for a good while, and will be requiring services above and beyond her normal duties. ;)
 
I had a lot planned with a very special girl that I know I'm meant to be with. But despite the fact she doesn't want to be with her boyfriend after 3 weeks of deliberation and waiting and growing incredibly close to eachother to the point we were actually a couple, she is still with him. So nothing.

I had planned a nice meal out followed by some quiet drinks. I was going to buy a grand prix rose, and hand make the box to give it to her in as im studying furniture at university. Along with a nice card and meaningful message. But you can't force somebody into something, especially if you they still have feelings for someone else, despite cheating on them numerous times. I know she doesnt seem like girlfriend material but the chemistry we have overrides everything.

So i'll be spending the money on ME and having some quality nights out with my lads :) I hope all you guys realise how lucky your are to havesome special! Enjoy your valentines day with your other halves.

Benny C
 
Wedding next month, so...

Probably get a card and cook her a meal :cool:
 
Nothing.

It's my birthday a couple of days before so Valentine's day means that I can never get a decent table to go for dinner with some mates, or if we do they have special menus and the ambiance of the restaurant is all lovey dovey and quiet.

Grr.

Might get her some flowers, but I do that at random times anyway.
 
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