We are reasonable sized enterprise and we have been working on exiting for almost 2 years and around 2 years left of our contract. Most of the peers I've spoken to are similar and even if the don't end up moving are seriously looking at alternatives and better still get of Windows / Linux and onto containers where they can. We are moving to a K8 / KVM solution and based on the number of people contacting me on linkedin its a fairly popular alternative choice.For the most part this is largely not going to bother a company like Broadcom. They're at the stage nowadays akin to 'Nobody got fired for buying IBM' - expensive? Yes. A name change on products every 30 seconds? Also yes. But I've worked and consulted at some of the big players since BC took over, and none of them are going anywhere away from VMware. I'm talking 10k+ assets sorts of places. Lots of diversifying yes, but the reality is they don't need homelabbers and/or bloggers to keep the people they're targetting in the game. It's not popular, but it's the truth. What will more likely chase people away is the horrendous support if you don't have VCF licensing and you have to deal with the third parties.
They also have barely any rivals in the SDN space that hold a candle to NSX, agentless is such a big win for them. I will say though, VKS needs to die a death haha. That's another one that name changes every 30 seconds. I suspect they're pushing more heavily in the VCF/NSX/VKS/AVI space than just bog standard ESXi nowadays.
I won't be going back to ESXi in the homelab, not because I'm burnt by BC or anything, I work with NSX and the wider VCF BOM on a daily basis, but because I find it more interesting to work on open source tooling nowadays.
Not to say Broadcom are good or anything, they've dealt with a lot of things badly, they absolutely have and I don't think they're a good company at all. But people, especially bloggers/tech bro youtube folk seem to think their word is gospel, when the reality is the target audience for BC is super large customers.
BTW, we are NSX users and personally I could switch it off fast enough. Thankfully never had to use it in anger.