I have 20+ unplayed games on my Steam list and a sim racing habit to support. So I play everything on the lowest settings now. I'm looking for relaxation and an "interactive movie" experience, not a challenge.
I'd feel different if I was a lot younger with more time than money for games (not that I buy many full price titles any more), then I'd be more inclined to take things slowly and enjoy beating rather than simply experiencing games.