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OK I have some trouble here, and I dont know what to do.
So Ill give you the back ground and tell the story.
Me and my partner have been together for a while now, but back in september last year I was a naughty boy, I had been messaging and texting some girls two of them in a rather dirty maner. This was an act of revenge on my partner who had been emailing some guy selling her worn panties and photos of her self naked over the internet. I knew about this but was told it was just business and that the photos though never explisit were never showed her face. I had a peek into her emails and saw that some did indeed include her face and thught I would get some revenge.
I was caught out. Told her why I had done it, but she didnt believe me. We fell out, but she took me back and I deactivated my facebook, changed my number and lost contact with both girls involved.
Since then I have been randomly incontact with girls I know, not in a sexual way, but still kept it a a secret from her as I knew she would get upset.
Her issue is that I trade the odd text now and again with randome people, people who are not really friends, and one or two of them that I have admited that I think are attractive. Its like shes saying that because I do not spend time with them, they are not friends so thus I do not need to talk to them.
So ok, the issue I have is that I just got back from a weekend away with my dad and my son, and we had a good time, but I got back and while I was away I text a friend of mine jenifer! I think shes hot, but I wouldnt go there!
So I kept my phone on silent as I expected a text from her, Emma noticed that and asked me about it. well what she asked was "are you in contact with any one in a way you shouldnt be.
I said no.
she then told me that she knew my phone was on silent and wanted to know why.
I eventually told her that I was expecting a text back from Jen and put my phone on silent because I didnt want questions, witch looks really bad given what happened in september but hay ho, my bad.
She then rather proudly told me that she had been online with her ex watching him self you know a few times, not just the once but like a few times, didnt do anything in return just watched and claimed that she didnt take part so its ok. Not different to watching porn! yet so what do you think???
So Ill give you the back ground and tell the story.
Me and my partner have been together for a while now, but back in september last year I was a naughty boy, I had been messaging and texting some girls two of them in a rather dirty maner. This was an act of revenge on my partner who had been emailing some guy selling her worn panties and photos of her self naked over the internet. I knew about this but was told it was just business and that the photos though never explisit were never showed her face. I had a peek into her emails and saw that some did indeed include her face and thught I would get some revenge.
I was caught out. Told her why I had done it, but she didnt believe me. We fell out, but she took me back and I deactivated my facebook, changed my number and lost contact with both girls involved.
Since then I have been randomly incontact with girls I know, not in a sexual way, but still kept it a a secret from her as I knew she would get upset.
Her issue is that I trade the odd text now and again with randome people, people who are not really friends, and one or two of them that I have admited that I think are attractive. Its like shes saying that because I do not spend time with them, they are not friends so thus I do not need to talk to them.
So ok, the issue I have is that I just got back from a weekend away with my dad and my son, and we had a good time, but I got back and while I was away I text a friend of mine jenifer! I think shes hot, but I wouldnt go there!
So I kept my phone on silent as I expected a text from her, Emma noticed that and asked me about it. well what she asked was "are you in contact with any one in a way you shouldnt be.
I said no.
she then told me that she knew my phone was on silent and wanted to know why.
I eventually told her that I was expecting a text back from Jen and put my phone on silent because I didnt want questions, witch looks really bad given what happened in september but hay ho, my bad.
She then rather proudly told me that she had been online with her ex watching him self you know a few times, not just the once but like a few times, didnt do anything in return just watched and claimed that she didnt take part so its ok. Not different to watching porn! yet so what do you think???
