What would you do if...

engstrom0304 · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:20

Ok...
So my girlfriend thinks she might be pregnant... and is getting a pregnancy test tomorrow.... we are only 17 and really bricking it right now...

If it came out positive... what would we do?!? :eek:

She might not even want to tell her mum if she wanted an abortion... it would be max 4 weeks down the line.. but could she get one without her mother's involvement if she's 17?? Arghh... tbh she should probably just tell her...

feelling pretty low right now... heart is pounding ... no stupid comments please...

not in the mood right now!

Biohazard · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:21

Sell it.

Or, you could sit down with your girlfriend and discuss what you would like to do. Speak to both your parents if you can even though you might get a kick in you will feel better.

Wise man say no answer to be found here on in.

Drake5 · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:21

Be more sensible?

SeraphX · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:21

abortion, clearly your not ready for kids,
remember condoms next time

Edrof · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:24

Abortion is the last choice, surely? Kids are life-changing, but you should really stand by your own mistakes. You'll think differently when you look into his or her eyes in twenty years.

Nix · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:25

Next time, on the face. Capiche?

engstrom0304 · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:25

Its worth saying shes been on the pill the whole time and is almost positive she hasnt missed any days.

Xelene · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:25

Day after pill. Then suck it up while she is in an awful mood and wants to kill you.

Xelene · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:26

engstrom0304 said:
Its worth saying shes been on the pill the whole time and is almost positive she hasnt missed any days.

Then she's probably mistaken. Wear a Condom.

scarlett · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:27

why wait to tomorrow to get a test, most supermarkets sell them these days

Danthus · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:27

Nice to see sex education is working well.

LordSplodge · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:28

Day after pill if you're using contraception and it failed. If you were not using protection you should be forced to raise the child and raise it with no support from my tax bill.. Got that?

jp_bl_68 · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:29

Biohazard said:
Or, you could sit down with your girlfriend and discuss what you would like to do. Speak to both your parents if you can even though you might get a kick in you will feel better.

This.

Ultimately, if she decides she wants to keep it you don't have much of a say in the matter. I'd just try to be as supportive as possible.

Personally, I'd be praying for an abortion.

GJ02 · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:29

although having a baby is the best thing in the world, not being prepared and being young in your case i can imagine is bit of a nightmare
do what YOU and HER ( nobody else ) think is best

neil3k · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:29

edited.

SeraphX · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:29

Forde said:
Abortion is the last choice, surely? Kids are life-changing, but you should really stand by your own mistakes. You'll think differently when you look into his or her eyes in twenty years.

granted but kids are generally to be had by adults, not more kids :rolleyes:

Danthus · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:30

engstrom0304 said:
Its worth saying shes been on the pill the whole time and is almost positive she hasnt missed any days.

PMKeates · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:30

Unless you have loads of money and are emotionally ready, abort it.

Deleted member 77746 · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:31

icecold · 27 Jun 2011 at 19:31