Strange scenario here, but one that we have just been discussing at work and one that has me divided, here goes....
You and your wife receive a phonecall from an acquaintance telling you that it is his wife's 40th birthday coming up, to celebrate the fact they are going to a restaurant for a meal, there will be 20-30 people there.
You go for the meal and enjoy it, at the end of the meal a waitress brings out the bill and the gentleman who invited you to the meal states that the meal has come to X amount of pounds and it works out at £30.00 per person.
This has shocked both of you as you were expecting the inviter to pay for everyones meals, and as you turned up with this in mind you had very little cash on you, so had to loan some from other attendee's
The question is this, is it wrong of this couple to have expected this person to foot the bill?
My thoughts are that yes they were in the wrong, they only asked if they would like to come for a meal to celebrate his wife's birthday, they didnt invite them to a party.
This has completely split the office, half say yes they are wrong, they other half say no they werent wrong and the inviter should pay.
Whats your thoughts?
You and your wife receive a phonecall from an acquaintance telling you that it is his wife's 40th birthday coming up, to celebrate the fact they are going to a restaurant for a meal, there will be 20-30 people there.
You go for the meal and enjoy it, at the end of the meal a waitress brings out the bill and the gentleman who invited you to the meal states that the meal has come to X amount of pounds and it works out at £30.00 per person.
This has shocked both of you as you were expecting the inviter to pay for everyones meals, and as you turned up with this in mind you had very little cash on you, so had to loan some from other attendee's
The question is this, is it wrong of this couple to have expected this person to foot the bill?
My thoughts are that yes they were in the wrong, they only asked if they would like to come for a meal to celebrate his wife's birthday, they didnt invite them to a party.
This has completely split the office, half say yes they are wrong, they other half say no they werent wrong and the inviter should pay.
Whats your thoughts?