What would you do?

[secretspy]

just support her and if she wants to talk about it then listen.

dont do anything to the guy. you may want to but I don't think your friend would be happy if you did.

believe me i talk from a similar experience. there's nothing worse then telling someone something so they can understand and you can move on only for it to cause a bigger issue because they then want to take the situation into their own hands (please dont take that the wrong way, all i mean is I told someone something and then it began to feel like they turned it into their issue that it was their responsibility to sort it out and it just made me feel a lot worse and made it harder for me to forget it and move on)

 

[SideWinder]

Her pain is far greater then any anger you feel now.

She told you in confidence , respect that confidence.

Mark

 

[cleanbluesky]

I can’t really speak to anyone else about this and as this is a fairly anonymous forum I thought I’d seek some advice. What would people here do?

Encourage her to seek therapy, and then hunt down and punish the human stain that did it to her.