Caporegime
- Joined
- 29 Aug 2007
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I've changed my mind. Ask him out for a date and then when he says no, challenge him to stand and bang in the car park. When he says no to that as well you sucker-punch him by asking the questions you wanted to talk about all along and in his relief he'll spill the beans like some ham-fisted toddler with a can of Heinz in its barely-functioning mitts.Don't put yourself or him in such an awkward position.

e: thinking this through further it is possible he will accept your date proposal and/or the fight in the car park so you still have options to get that inside knowledge either by sleeping with him and/or beating him up, or even one then the other! It's all about strategy, options, and timing.