I think Wolfram Alpha does it the way it does only because the tools to enter the sum properly do not exist online in a convenient way. Touch devices are new and hand-writing recognition inconsistent. They HAVE to deal with calculator style single-line entry.
I think you're both right really, in that you both recognize you're arguing within a framework that is artificially constraining. You both recognise that if you broke out of this framework to real mathematical notation, you would be in agreement. One of you even said that past primary school, the operator symbols should be abandoned. They create a false idea of chained operations whereas real maths isn't like sequential programming, but like functional programming (for those who are familiar with that).
I think you're both right really, in that you both recognize you're arguing within a framework that is artificially constraining. You both recognise that if you broke out of this framework to real mathematical notation, you would be in agreement. One of you even said that past primary school, the operator symbols should be abandoned. They create a false idea of chained operations whereas real maths isn't like sequential programming, but like functional programming (for those who are familiar with that).