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I'm far too nice and tend to apologise even when I know I'm not the one in the wrong. It's a bad habit I really wish I could shake. I was actually sacked from a job once for being too nice!

I guess its not the worst fault to have, but hey ho...

Same here. Made a new years resolution to stop doing it but it's difficult cos sometimes I got too far the other way and offend people lol
 
Apparently according to my flatmates I have an OSD.

Is that like the Terminator's?

If it is, that's just cool.

I have a problem where I find things really funny in my head but in reality they're just not.:p

Also I'm a bit intollerant of trivial small talk and if people do something which I deem illogical it really annoys me even though I sometimes make bad decisions.
 
I'm quite outgoing and then at times when i need to keep it going i jsut crawl up into a shell and go shy :(

I try to help every person I know....even if I know they're going to be an arse to me in the long run :(

I probably do that more though ^ haha
 
I am far too arrogant.
I think I am better than everyone else, where in reality I am a bit of a thick ****
 
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I am very depressive. Always negative and pessimistic, always whinging about someone or something. You see a smile on my face about as often as seeing the sunshine. Even in a good mood.

My wife says it's because I let things get to me, I always have. She recently told me that I am always either under stress, or anticipating stress, and never try to relax.

Funny as for 52 years I never actually realised that until she told me.
 
A few more things I've just thought of. :eek:
I have little moral fibre in me, if I find someone attractive I will give it a go, married or not.
I'm waaaay to sensitive, say I get a bollocking at work or have an argument with the GF I feel like crying like a girl. :o
I've forgotten how to laugh ! Either that or my mates are boring farts who never say anything funny. I find every program on TV that isn't a documentary, boring, dull and seriously made for the intelligence of a 5 year old.
I've lost interest in everything and am worried it'll only get worse.
I'd actually rather sit here and look at OC or play eve rather than go out and meet some of my dwindling circle of mates.

Better stop there or it would better placed in the confessions thread than here.
 
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I'm a former extrovert turned introvert.

I used to have tons of friends and was really outgoing. Most people have a close personal group of 4 or 5. My close personal group had 23 of us with more around as acquaintances.

For reasons I would rather not go into, I ended up moving away to a city where I knew no one for 3 years. I lived on my own and worked a night shift on my own. I spent my days online. In other words, I spent 23 hours a day by myself.

When I moved back, I found I was no longer outgoing and certainly not social. My conversation skills are non existent and find I would much rather sit in silence with my own thoughts than actually talk to someone.

My close group now consists of 2 people. My wife and my best friend. These are the only two people I can sit and have a perfectly normal conversation with.

Sad isn't it?

Similar to me then, used to have loads of friends but now I find it hard to leave the house some days. Have one or two friends at the most but that's it. Luckily their brill.

My problem : low self esteem sometimes.
 
I Don't take well to criticism unless its constructive

Low Self Esteem :( Week in Kos and i didn't even approach a single girl, thank god some approached me! :D (I did have aids at the time, by aids i mean MANFLU)

To those who say they are arrogant, sort that out. The amount of people i have become friends with and later noticed their arrogance..

I just don't bother contacting them again, for me, arrogance is a huge turn off.

Confidence is so important in life, and something I hope to have seriously improved in the next 3/4 years.
 
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I'm the same when it comes to people. I'd rather talk to my other half and the 3-4 friends I hang out with than anyone else. I usually give short or curt responses to people that don't know me, just so I can get out of the conversation quicker.

I'm thinking of keeping my responses shorter so that I don't have to talk to people quite so much. It can be so draining emotionally.
 
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