It's not so much a huge cost saving exercise; we have to accept that if we want to run a big car for towing, that it's inevitably going to be expensive. It's just that whilst the current car is fine, I feel it's a bit wasteful. It's great for towing and carting stuff around, but it spends most of it's time doing shorter trips, and not very efficiently. I sometimes drive it into town to grab shopping or whatever and find myself thinking how much nicer it would be (for me and everyone around me) to do it under electric power....quieter, cleaner, no worries about mechanical sympathy and engines not even getting warm, etc. And probably would be more cheaper on fuel (even though I realise that's not really an overall cost saving when you consider purchasing, deprecation, etc). But it's still nice - so in my mind, if when we come to change the car, we can get into a suitable PHEV, that would be the more elegant one-car solution.
If that's not possible, then we'll stick to diesel. But I'd quite like to get on board with EV if I can.