Where to Propose!!!

after a year with my girlfriend, i honestly thought we'd get married. after a year of living with her, i'd have quite cheerfully strangled her. tread carefully.
 
Your situation is similar to mine - although mine is English (when she finished Uni she went home, 200 miles away) - in that I absolutely adore her and, currently, want to spend my life with her. She is great. But I've yet to live with her and until I've done that, with success, I don't think I could consider marrying her.

Perhaps I'm applying too much 'common sense' to a situation where there should be none.
 
XRAY said:
Mauritius.

One of the most stunning places I've had the priviledge to visit. If you have the money, you could go to the hotel we visited, "le touessrok". There's an even smaller Island 5 mins boat ride from the hotel called "Ile Aux Cerfs" which I THINK you can request some privacy on. Private, torch lit beach at night, clear moonlit skies. Work your magic Cassanova.
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[TW]Fox;13196154 said:
Your situation is similar to mine - although mine is English (when she finished Uni she went home, 200 miles away) - in that I absolutely adore her and, currently, want to spend my life with her. She is great. But I've yet to live with her and until I've done that, with success, I don't think I could consider marrying her.

Perhaps I'm applying too much 'common sense' to a situation where there should be none.
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Not at all, some Women turn evil when you live with them, common sense is a must before marrying any bird :)
 
Delvis said:
Sorry I don't quite get this reply :p
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I think he means if you're with the right person, you just 'know' that you're destined to be together, so why wait before getting married.

Which is silly imo, how you feel about someone after 12 months is not necessarily how you'll feel in another 12 months...
 
shes not really your gf of 1 year is she, not when shes living in Russia, count the days youve spent together and that is how long she has been your gf, you will be a divorce statistic waiting to happen if you marry this woman now, lol

speaking as somebody who is married to an eastern european woman, its a different culture, and you have so many problems to discover and resolve before you should even think of marriage, its not something you should do on a whim
 
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She lives in Russia and does not have a UK Visa at present :)
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Hmmmm. And to be honest, a year? Christ, so soon...been with mine for 10 months or so and i see her most days. Still would be odd being married. I know a couple who got engaged within 3 weeks of knowing each other...broke up 8 months later and now its a bit messy. They were 20 and 21.
 
How about writing "Will you marry me?" in the sand? Mwaha, how corny!
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Writing in the sand is cheesy, shows little creativity and is prone to go wrong due to the sea.

I think it's important to be creative.

I've been working on secret plans for years now; the creativity of which would astound and astonish you - but the gf reads the forums so I can't share :p .
 
I was with my gf for 7 years and knew her for about 12 in total, wouldn't even have dreamt of marrying her for atleast another 5 years together after that.

Don't matter now anyway cos we broke up.
 
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