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Yep, as others mentioning, doing this at home is the real answer.Since I've been having trouble with diverticulitis I've been freaking out everytime I get a heart rate/blood pressure reading at the doctors/hospital, which leads to them panicking and then I panic more and it shoots up.
Anyone else had this? Not great considering I'm probably going to need surgery soon.
My Mrs struggles with it, and our Braun BP monitor at home has saved the day, she even sends in screen shots of the trend over a week and they are very happy to accept that.
As for white coat syndrome etc, that is really just another irrational fear (I had/have issues flying which is hilarious considering how much I have to do!), I found private CBT massively helped after I was involved in aircraft incident (Plane caught on fire (electrically) just after take off) which all happene during 9/11 which didn't help! So it might be worth looking at local CBT practioners and seeing if it would cover it.. I was sceptical, but the method/science is sound and it somewhat worked in that I am able to fly again, just needs me to sometimes focus on the exercises and coping methods but am glad I persevered.
What I can say for surgery is everyone is worried/apprehensive, that's normal, my only operation was a slightly complicated procedure that involved a large scar on my back when they effectively 'dremelled' a bulging disk and nerve canal opening.. In hindsight it was a great experience, I had this amazing sleep, I woke up feeling no pain and was on my back still (I don't know why, but I expected not to be lying on the wound!) so asked the nurse what had stopped the operation going ahead and she looked at me blankly and said "Oh, no, the operation was a great success, you are just recovering now".. I had morphine on demand and I luckily was able to get it done privately so did have a full english breakfast the next morning and went home in the afternoon.. All the fears I had just dissipated and I'm more relaxed about things now..