Who plays it cool after a date?

Pulsedriver

Pulsedriver

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Hey folks...

So you've just taken a girl out for a drink, dropped her home...


Do you text her?

Wait for a text from her?


How many of you make the first move?

Oh...And what do you say!
 
Sod the games, I hate all that crap.

Text her to tell her you had a good night and you'd love to go out again some time, wish her goodnight and tell her you'll next her later in the week to arrange something else.

Provided the date went well, she'll like your assertiveness because it wont appear to be cocky and she'll know exactly where she stands, none of this wondering what's what crap.
 
I thought the idea of a date is to work out if you wanna bum someone (Putting it bluntly), surely if you didn't work that out then it's a failed date :confused:

seek said:
if the date went well there will be no "wondering what's what"... regardless of texts.
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Exactly.
 
seek said:
if the date went well there will be no "wondering what's what"... regardless of texts.
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There will if they don't speak for a bit afterwards.

It's human nature to go back home and contemplate everything that happened when you're alone. If you dont hear from them, even though it may have gone well in your eyes, you start asking why they've not txted etc. That's when the doubt sets in.
 
MrSix said:
There will if they don't speak for a bit afterwards.

It's human nature to go back home and contemplate everything that happened when you're alone. If you dont hear from them, even though it may have gone well in your eyes, you start asking why they've not txted etc. That's when the doubt sets in.
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no, thats paranoia and looking too much into it. leave that for the girls i say. not for us to worry about. ;)
but like i said... it depends on the girl.
 
MrSix said:
Sod the games, I hate all that crap.

Text her to tell her you had a good night and you'd love to go out again some time, wish her goodnight and tell her you'll next her later in the week to arrange something else.

Provided the date went well, she'll like your assertiveness because it wont appear to be cocky and she'll know exactly where she stands, none of this wondering what's what crap.
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Got it in one. Games are just stupid.
 
Von Luck said:
Texting is for kids, grown ups actually speak to each other.
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But texts are informal and less awkward for a quick note to eachother.

Telephone conversations come after a few dates when you've got things to talk about, there's nothing worse than the deadly silence that comes with slight unease and lack of things to talk about over a prolonged period of time where there's no other stimulants than the other person.
 
MrSix said:
wtf?
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