Who plays it cool after a date?

Don't worry, she might be out, not checked her phone, not got her phone, charging her phone, lost her thumbs, had a labotomy, anything.

Give it until tmorrow night, then begin to worry.
 
MonkeyMan said:
So wait til she's forgotten about you?

Smooth my friend, real smooth. ;)
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It's from Swingers. I think it was actually six days having watched the film over the weekend, not a week and a day as I originally suggested.
 
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It's all elimentary now, no text so definately there is no interest!

Women are confusing! Never know why they talk about so many things, act super friendly etc! If they are not interested!
You'd think there would be a reply even if it was just a friendly courtesy one!
 
SeanyK said:
It's all elimentary now, no text so definately there is no interest!

Women are confusing! Never know why they talk about so many things, act super friendly etc! If they are not interested!
You'd think there would be a reply even if it was just a friendly courtesy one!
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Women for you.

Look at work life, men in work you ask them to do something they do it. Women you have to butter up and ask them about their weekend then 30 minutes into it drop in about the work they have to do. Women don't like 'hurting people' they can't be honest they have to be nice about everything.
 
SeanyK said:
It's all elimentary now, no text so definately there is no interest!

Women are confusing! Never know why they talk about so many things, act super friendly etc! If they are not interested!
You'd think there would be a reply even if it was just a friendly courtesy one!
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maybe she's using "the rules" lots of girls do nowadays.
pain in the ass if you're doing somthing simmiler too, battle of wills etc
 
txt what you want when you want, just be adult about it.

If you have to mess about and play games then your not being yourself.

I told my GF that "I don't do games" on the second or third time we met and I think it helped. We both knew there was no hidden agendas and we were texting eachother for no other reason than we wanted to.
 
MookJong said:
I told my GF that "I don't do games" on the second or third time we met and I think it helped. We both knew there was no hidden agendas and we were texting eachother for no other reason than we wanted to.
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Best way imo.

More people should be honest and up-front instead of playing games!
 
Hard lines. That's just the way it goes sometimes.

Maybe she's on a Take That board asking the same question and they're all going - "Nooooooo, don't answer straight away, he'll think you're easy!". Leave him waiting a few days...without realising you'll just think she's a tease if she does.

Don't dwell on it.

Mind you, you'll see her in six months time and get a sob story ;) she dropped her phone down the loo and lost all her numbers.......

.....I'm not bitter. :eek:
 
Wryel said:
Had a date on Friday, was going to text her in the morning but it would have meant climbing over her....
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Good Lad!

Seriously speaking, before Sarah I used to just make sure they had my number, if they really like you they will text, If I really liked her I would probably text if she didn't, but depends what your after from her really :-)

My current girlfriend didn't want a serious relationship 2 and a half years ago :-)

Just go with the flow, what ever feels right.
 
I've been on a couple of dates here and there over the past two weeks, with a lovely girl. Usually after each date I say something along the lines of "thanks for the night, really enjoyed my self. How about we do it again sometime?" thats juat the basic jist.

You should text her what you'd say to her the next time you saw her.

Had a date last night, stayed in and watched a movie and some tv, had the first kiss. She's a great girl and I'd love to start a relationship off with her, she knows that and I think she appreciates the honesty. I'm not the type of play games, and think the people who do arn't mature enough for a proper relationship and just want some fun. Which just isn't me !
 
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