why does she do it....

xirokx

xirokx

xirokx

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does your gf ever get so brain dead (not frequently) but when its time of the month, if she has a cold, if she's tired or just after a boring day at her work......that you begin to lose patience and begin to be abrupt with her only at the times when she is being dopey?

just wondered, like ya do ;)

background info:- been together for over a yr of which 9 months we have been living together...both in our late 20's...

thanks
 
when she does it, boy its so tedious, walking around with a face looking likes it been slapped by something or other lol...

joke aside....what the hell to do...

funny thing is shes talking about marriage, well not when shes like this...but its like BOY GET OVER IT!!!

Anything I say leads to an argument so its like wtf is the point when she's like this..

How can some one be so self centered...grrrrrrrr

Then later it will be like, "oh are you not talking to me" ...I GET REALLY No Swearing! OFF and then we have like really bad rows, unless I go the other way and be sympathic and listen to her which OK we all do sometimes, but this is really annoying....

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xirokx said:
does your gf ever get so brain dead (not frequently) but when its time of the month, if she has a cold, if she's tired or just after a boring day at her work......that you begin to lose patience and begin to be abrupt with her only at the times when she is being dopey?

just wondered, like ya do ;)

background info:- been together for over a yr of which 9 months we have been living together...both in our late 20's...

thanks
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Hell yes, and I take full advantage and wind her up by hiding things and telling her small fibs to confuse her... evil eh :D
 
Hint: get out of there at that time like go to the gym, start by running her a bath and tell her to have some alone time to chill out and relax, get her a foot spa/massage chair and then bugger off to do man stuff like fight, meat and beer.
 
Well if she's got a cold or if she's really tired you can't really blame her can you?

When I'm feeling like that it's really annoying when people keep talking to you and bugging you. I just want to be left alone to rest or get better. Especially when you have a cold and a sore throat, people constantly talking to you and you have to respond every time which hurts your throat immensely.
 
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Hint: get out of there at that time like go to the gym, start by running her a bath and tell her to have some alone time to chill out and relax, get her a foot spa/massage chair and then bugger off to do man stuff like fight, meat and beer.
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Post of the day!

If you omitted that last comma that would've been post of the century :D
 
Well if she's got a cold or if she's really tired you can't really blame her can you?

When I'm feeling like that it's really annoying when people keep talking to you and bugging you. I just want to be left alone to rest or get better. Especially when you have a cold and a sore throat, people constantly talking to you and you have to respond every time which hurts your throat immensely.
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she doesnt have a sore throat...I wasnt even talking to her lol....we went to tesco to do the weekly shop and she was just soooo dopey...i understood she wasnt feeling well so told her to wait in the car etc etc...nah she had to come didnt she..

if it was me, boy I would never hear the end of it ...i.e. "you dont listen to me" "what u doing" "why cant you pay attention" blah blah....
 
yeah I have times like that. Used to be caused by hormones a lot of the time (time of the month), but I am suffering from migraines at the moment which make me unbelievably dopey and lethargic. Fortunately I have a very understanding boyfriend who looks after me, rather than an insensitive one that gets stroppy.
 
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one wanders if it works both ways.. cuz from where I am standing it doesnt all the time..

As at the end of the day, a relationship is always about relating to the other half...

I just can't see why most weeks even if I have troubles its about some silly insecurity of hers which needs to be addressed, sure everyone has troubles and in relationship you help and listen to one another, but when its more one sided I think its really selfish of that one who is being ungrateful and unappreciative complaining and whining about silly little things and not thinking "i know lets chill and have fun" rather then let me moan him to death AGAIN...

Wake up!!!
 
Maybe she isn't actually thinking like that though. I know when i was particularly hormonal and depressed I really couldn't get myself to be happy at all, and my bf was the only one around so I *had* to moan to him. I felt awful doing it cos it's really annoying being moaned to all the time but I couldn't lift myself out of being so low and miserable. Maybe there's some underlying problem here that needs addressing.

Not that I'm a psychiatrist or anything. Can't even spell it.
 
Why don't you address the underlying problem that you are trying to find faults in your relationship, is this to have some sort of guy strop and break up with her or has something else happened?

Eitherway why dont you do the only thing which will help and talk to her and not a bunch of internet geeks.

You talk about common sense yet you're clearly lacking there.

KaHn
 
Just try to remember who wears the trousers and tell her to STFU and get you a beer from the fridge.

Feminism has a lot to answer for! :D :p

On a serious note do what RandomTom said.
 
how about, leave her, and let her find herself a man who cares for her, will look after her when she isn't feeling great - and doesn't whine and moan about her on the internet

next time she's feeling a bit down (pms, cold, bad week at work - all valid reasons for her not to be feeling 100%) why not show her this thread - and see what happens? - bet that'll cheer her up :shrug:
 
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